Wow college-lad, sorry for your troubles. It does sound like you've a situation that needs to be managed. I'm guessing that you're probably early 20ish ?
I wonder if you've ever had a regular girlfriend ? I imagine that a girlfriend would be the most understanding person you could meet ? In fact after you'd be with her a few times it'd become the norm for her.
I'm trying not to sound patronising or one of those older guys who think they know it all but I'd give up the escort thing if I were you. I know we all have our needs but you're supposed to be all starry-eyed & idealistic, not cynical like most of the old farts here.
If you do continue seeing escorts why not find 1 who gets you, gets along with you & see her on an ongoing basis ?
If I was you I'd be very honest with any potential girlfriend after you know that she likes you. It's the old story, if she hangs around then she's a good one & if she doesn't then she wasn't worth it anyway. Falling for a girl & her falling for you is one of the most pure things a young person can experience, sex is just something that naturally follows. If a girl loves you nothing you have to tell her will be a deal breaker !
Go n'eiridh an bothar leat.
"I don't want to go to heaven. None of my friends are there."
Oscar Wilde