Insane

[Irelandbeautyyy]

Maybe I'm wrong!?
But by my calculations based off your post

€100 to pay my advert
€25 to pay the electricity
€25 This happened a few times.

Total €150!?

Obviously you wanted this money repayed in favour Plus a €20 discount?

Equivalent of 13.3% interest rate

The average interest rate for a £5,000 personal loan is 11.30%

Tony you really know how to make your money work for you!!

But is this really working for you?

could you not just have helped out been repayed with her time as I'm sure you expected without trying it on!?

"Hey Sweetie, I am €20 short for an hour appointment. Can I still come?"

Dead on Tony!!

The day your stuck for €20 the banking system will have collapsed!!

Are you boring this evening if you calculated all of this?

It was enough is she would replied something like i will give you back your money minus 20€. Anyway iam afraid it would be only way how to get his money back in some way.

I always say money show a true personality.

[AmorInfinito8]

Are you boring this evening if you calculated all of this?

It was enough is she would replied something like i will give you back your money minus 20€. Anyway iam afraid it would be only way how to get his money back in some way.

I always say money show a true personality.

The calculations were in Tony's OP
I merely summarized them?

My interpretation was that
this girl's fee would be consumed by her debit to Tony leaving her only €20

which Tony wanted her to forfeit as a quid pro quo

The facts as stated that this girl is struggling to then ask her for a discount!!

[Irelandbeautyyy]

The calculations were in Tony's OP
I merely summarized them?

My interpretation was that
this girl's fee would be consumed by her debit to Tony leaving her only €20

which Tony wanted her to forfeit as a quid pro quo

The facts as stated that this girl is struggling to then ask her for a discount!!

I disagree. I don’t see there anything he would ask her about some discount. There was clearly option to take it from her debt.

It’s less painful option how to repay borrowed money. She should suggest by her own.

I also don’t think he is worried about his money. He is probably more dejected by her reaction. I love what he said… we can help people but most of them never help us back.

And some other topic when i will be “bad” in so many eyes. I don’t know why girls do this business if they can’t pay even their electricity. She is loosing her social value but she can’t even pay some basic bills. Why girls are not interested to be employed and get their money monthly without any fear if they will have some money next month. This business is not for everyone. Same like other business. That’s not what most of the girls want to hear but it’s a fact.

[PhilPhilPhil]

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And some other topic when i will be “bad” in so many eyes. I don’t know why girls do this business if they can’t pay even their electricity. She is loosing her social value but she can’t even pay some basic bills. Why girls are not interested to be employed and get their money monthly without any fear if they will have some money next month. This business is not for everyone. Same like other business. That’s not what most of the girls want to hear but it’s a fact.

Call me a cynic, but she may have no money troubles at all and just hits up all her previous clients for 100 here, 25 there, if half of them pay up she's coining it in - she draws up a list of gullible men and goes back to it from time to time to boost her earnings.

[Harry68]

Without knowing more detail but assuming that TonyB is a fairly regular client it would seem to be a poor decision in the longer term. You’d have to assume the woman in question is pretty desperate.

It’s not clear either the timeframe between asking for the repayment and the initial payments.

If 150 is the write off in total and looking at your spending habits in the area I think you will survive and it could have been worse.

[Harry68]

The principle is annoying though.

[TommyH123]

Tony short of twenty euro!

It’s the final sign

We are in the end game now people

[TommyH123]

The principle is annoying though.

It’s annoying if he was doing her a favour or giving the lady a gift but I think in his head he was prepaying for a meet, give with a good heart or not at all.

[AmorInfinito8]

It’s annoying if he was doing her a favour or giving the lady a gift but I think in his head he was prepaying for a meet, give with a good heart or not at all.

If Tony's lost out on €150 debit
because he didn't get a €20 discount
he's only gone and cut off his nose to spite his face!!

Maybe Tony can clarify it these previous loan's had been repayed or if they would have been his fee on this occasion?

[TonyB]

If Tony's lost out on €150 debit
because he didn't get a €20 discount
he's only gone and cut off his nose to spite his face!!

Maybe Tony can clarify it these previous loan's had been repayed or if they would have been his fee on this occasion?

I never ask for loans to be repaid.
I never bring them up.

Perhaps this is why I almost never get money returned. Lol
It would be nice if for once I was presently surprised by human nature but I'm repeatedly disappointed.
I still don't see friends stuck and don't plan on changing.
I'll just be more careful with my friends going forward.

It's a shame that the disappointments make us think all requests for help are just another scam.

I Just thought there would be a little give and take.