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    Default Anyone in a LTR yet still punt with a clear mind?

    Whats the craic, E-I!

    Havent posted on here in an age. So, as the title suggests, how many here are in LTR's and punt regularly?

    I'm with my current partner half a decade, I still find her immensely attractive, and love the bones of her and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

    Here's the thing, I also want to fuck other people, no strings attached.

    Not on a night out, or a secret fling.

    Just a once off, business/pleasure (exclusively with escorts), and be on my way.

    I know its a severe case of having your cake and eating it too, but I just want to mix it up a bit.

    I wanna taste another womans pussy. A new smell and touch. I want to see trans women again. Its a magical experience looking at a pretty girl with a rock hard cock boucing on top of you.

    But I also dearly love my partner.

    The itch is strong.

    I hate being a man lol.

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    You only live once.
    I'll sure you're partner thinks the same.
    From my experience women are worse than men, they just hide it better

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    LTR's. Had to read the OP's full post to work out what it meant.

    And no. I'm old and all alone.
    Are we there yet ?

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    I'm really glad someone already mentioned being in an open relationship. I wish more people tried to present this alternative to their partners without the fear of repercussions, so the "clear mind" wouldn't even be a question at all. My mind is clear as I'm literally just minding my own business, if they don't cheat with me, they'll cheat with someone else, but I felt so much happier when the client told me that he asked his girlfriend's approval whether he chose the right escort to visit before he came. I understand some people do it specifically because it's not allowed, the taboo element gives them the buzz they miss in their lives, but in most cases they said it's either secret or divorce, as their partners are still stuck in the middle ages of mononormativity. Actually it's not rare that both parties cheat, they just don't have the guts to confront the other to propose what would clearly suit both of them if they were willing to drop the pretense of a basic couple.
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    Don't have a relationship.
    Simple

    I don't know the number of my friends who have sexless marriage only to move on to another partner and after a few years they have a sexless relationship.

    How do you stop a woman having sex?
    Marry her

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    Quote Originally Posted by TonyB View Post
    Don't have a relationship.
    Simple

    I don't know the number of my friends who have sexless marriage only to move on to another partner and after a few years they have a sexless relationship.

    How do you stop a woman having sex?
    Marry her
    Sure who would put up with you and that other big Goofeball?.
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    15 years in an open relationship, see escorts when in the mood and have met a lot of married women for what they ain't getting at home from a few apps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by passive1 View Post
    15 years in an open relationship, see escorts when in the mood and have met a lot of married women for what they ain't getting at home from a few apps.
    Feel free to Pm me those apps

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    For me I think seeing escorts has stunted my urge to start up any sort of relationship never mind a long term one. I've been on my own 9 years or so and yeah I miss the intimacy of a partner and the security of it but I have zero desire to start again.

    I will probably die a single man that has sex with beautiful women on a regular basis and I'm ok with that.

    Long term relationships aren't for everyone!

    Although I will say putting the Duvet cover on by yourself is a bollocks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AbsoluteNoob View Post
    Whats the craic, E-I!

    Havent posted on here in an age. So, as the title suggests, how many here are in LTR's and punt regularly?

    I'm with my current partner half a decade, I still find her immensely attractive, and love the bones of her and I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

    Here's the thing, I also want to fuck other people, no strings attached.

    Not on a night out, or a secret fling.

    Just a once off, business/pleasure (exclusively with escorts), and be on my way.

    I know its a severe case of having your cake and eating it too, but I just want to mix it up a bit.

    I wanna taste another womans pussy. A new smell and touch. I want to see trans women again. Its a magical experience looking at a pretty girl with a rock hard cock boucing on top of you.

    But I also dearly love my partner.

    The itch is strong.

    I hate being a man lol.
    The vast majority of punters are in long term relationships or married.
    We have two lives , the second begins when we realise we only have one .....

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