Unconditional it needs to be

[beautyaddict]

If you help an escort in any way, money , advice , admin like a PPS number or anything else

If you see an escort a lot , become a regular , spend a lot of money

If you promote /support her on here

Or any other help

It cannot have strings/expectations attached. It has to be unconditional , no you owe me , no she used me , no you betrayed me or any other such nonsense , If you are helping, you made that decision not her you are the owner of it. She owes you nothing beyond time and companionship . If she allows you some additional access like private number thats not a vow .

And accordingly do not become a monster /stalker or any shade of that . Do not start harassing her . She is making a living and if you over read it thats on you. Expect nothing and be very very very surprised if she of her own volition goes further , and even then it will have boundaries .

Expect her to retire , treasure the memory and leave her in peace .

Why post this ?

Because in last few months I have seen/ been involved in several situations where it has got out of hand some of it public, some of it private none of it right no matter how intense the guy sees it. Do not put stress or indeed fear into a provider because you lost the run of yourself. And if have fallen for someone then be a man and take the pain , not easy but no amount of stalking, harassing pleading is going to help , just the opposite. So man up if it happens to you . I have been there but did not go all bonkers so I get it , I understand that pain

Yes I have strong feelings about this as I have seen the damage done and believe me girls have enough other shit to deal with with bad clients/ stupid messages etc etc besides someone they thought was a good guy/reliable mature going psycho as well.

Rant over

[Rockerman]

100%.

That recent situation got real weird, real quick. I gave that member friendly advice at first and then my advice got more aggressive.

What we have to remember is a ban here doesn't necessarily mean that situation is done. The website have done all they can do, but the street is the street.

I will see that girl very soon. Atleast there can be no more discrediting her on the website by that member. Hopefully if he reads he will realise he lost the run of himself and it's time to completely forget that situation and just move on.

[beautyaddict]

100%.

That recent situation got real weird, real quick. I gave that member friendly advice at first and then my advice got more aggressive.

What we have to remember is a ban here doesn't necessarily mean that situation is done. The website have done all they can do, but the street is the street.

I will see that girl very soon. Atleast there can be no more discrediting her on the website by that member. Hopefully if he reads he will realise he lost the run of himself and it's time to completely forget that situation and just move on.

I am aware of 4 incidents in last few months , what you are referring to , final straw for me . I also know of some who have dealt with it all brilliantly given the situation been absolute gentlemen in their way. I post this as a reminder and, no anyone reading this who thinks otherwise you are not the one the exception like euromillions do be saying

[Rockerman]

I am aware of 4 incidents in last few months , what you are referring to , final straw for me . I also know of some who have dealt with it all brilliantly given the situation been absolute gentlemen in their way. I post this as a reminder and, no anyone reading this who thinks otherwise you are not the one the exception like euromillions do be saying

The recent one...I don't think he was experienced with having a regular girl he would see. That was the problem I think. He let bitterness and jealousy affect his mind.

Some punters are not well suited to having a regular. They are better off just visiting different girls.

I'm very suited to having numerous regular girls I see. I like the familiarity and when regulars are different to one another so I can mix it up with nice, sexy girls.

Keep it real .

[beautyaddict]

The recent one...I don't think he was experienced with having a regular girl he would see. That was the problem I think. He let bitterness and jealousy affect his mind.

Some punters are not well suited to having a regular. They are better off just visiting different girls.

I'm very suited to having numerous regular girls I see. I like the familiarity and when regulars are different to one another so I can mix it up with nice, sexy girls.

Keep it real .

It can happen for many reasons , the recent one I do not want this thread to be just about that , I do not know enough to comment like you but I am going at a general everyone please take note . But to the girl caught up in that she knows my thoughts . I will meet her as I admire her for dealing with it and of course she looks awesome. But as I say to all no reason is a reason

[beautyaddict]

I should add that I know from pm in last day that Rocker you tried to talk it down but no joy and yes some are not suited to regulars. It was good of you to try to advise but unfortunately the talk not listened to .

[PhilPhilPhil]

...no reason is a reason

Yes! Very well summarised!

[bananabox999]

I think its very easy to lose yourself, as im sure those at this for years will know or have themselves experienced. Knowing when to reign it in is key. We can all go a little overboard at times, we are human after all. Just step back and take a look at the situation before it goes too far. If you need to just walk away for the good of everyone involved.

[Kangaroo02]

I think its very easy to lose yourself, as im sure those at this for years will know or have themselves experienced. Knowing when to reign it in is key. We can all go a little overboard at times, we are human after all. Just step back and take a look at the situation before it goes too far. If you need to just walk away for the good of everyone involved.

Spot on here , step back take a look at things , we are all here to enjoy and have fun in my view .

[sas]

Hey,
I wouldn't respond to anything else about the incident here because I really just want this matter to end. But I feel that I need to clarify a few things publicly since all of this affects and pertains to my work, especially what was posted and deleted, but I'm sure many of you have read/saw it.

First of all, I NEVER initiated contact or started a conversation with anyone. I only respond to the messages they send me, and if the person wants to know more about my day and talk about other subjects, I have no problem with that. I have several regulars who contact me weekly to check on how I'm doing or to share something about their lives, even if they don't intend to visit me that week. And that's fine. But I don't initiate the conversation because I know that sometimes a message from me arriving on someone's phone can create problems. So if someone exchanged messages with me while being accompanied, it's not my fault, considering I don't initiate conversations with anyone.

Secondly, I have no problem sending photos to a person who regularly visits me and is talking to me on WhatsApp, whether it's a photo of myself or a photo of something I'm doing. For example, I was choosing some clothes for the photo shoots I was doing in Brazil. I won't send a photo of myself without reason, with any ulterior motive, or just for the sake of it. But if someone asks me what I'm doing, and if I feel like it, I show them, and I don't see any problem with that at all.

The third and final point is that I have never tried to take advantage or asked for help with anything. If someone offers me help, I accept it, but I know my place and I don't ask for help from anyone or for anything. If someone offers help and expects something in return, I’m not the one who has issues to be solved.

I have never talked about any of guys to other girls, let alone to other guys.

I came forward publicly (which is not in line with my personality) and contacted the moderators because I had been receiving some veiled threats. I explained what had been happening for weeks, provided access to conversations, and they made the decision they deemed appropriate.

I am very grateful for the support and assistance from all of you who took the time to try to advise, as well as from the website moderation and Sofia.

And I would love for this particular incident not to be discussed so much anymore because I know this forum is public, and we can never truly know what goes on in people's minds and how far they are willing to go.

Again, thank you so much! Xx