what do u think?

[experienced punter]

What does she want? Have you asked her ?

If this is a joke XP I will rip your head off. I am assuming this is real as I have a shitload of smartass comments held back by me trying to be nice and caring in case it is for real. (eg Is her name Horan ?)

no not at all Alec I'm deadly serious, more opinions please thanks to those who have replied already...

[Alec Horan]

Do you think she loves you ?

Could you love her ?

Determined to stay celibate are you ?

[experienced punter]

Do you think she loves you ?

Could you love her ?

Determined to stay celibate are you ?

No she dont love me I dont love her u can be friends only with females u know
celibacy Q is off-topic.......

[Alec Horan]

Beats me - I dont have the answers - Its up to her really- Any kids involved- She working ?

She have brothers /sisters / parents that she is really close to ?

[experienced punter]

Beats me - I dont have the answers - Its up to her really- Any kids involved- She working ?

She have brothers /sisters / parents that she is really close to ?

Yep 1 child under 10 not close to family just me

[Alec Horan]

Tell her to leave and put em both up for a while. Be a good samaritan.

[Lynne]

it is a very sad situation. Unfortunately it seems lady who get into abusive relationships tend to proceed into the next one, with nothing much of a change.
The best thing to do is to be there for her and listen to her and try to give as much advice as you can. At the end of the day it is her decision and will take her own willpower to get out of the problems she is in.
hope all works out
Sincerely
Lynne x

[Doozer]

I agree with Lynne EP. Just b e there for here. Its a sad state of affairs.You cant win.

[cavanman]

From reading the post here I must agreed with the idea of you not getting yourself overly stressed about her. It really is up to her to break away if she really wishes to and all you can really do is to is lend support to her if she does it.

I am not saying this is the case here but it is believed that abuse is all about power and control over another and you often find people who are abused can at times unknowingly excert power over others through their vulnerably.

I believe every adult in this world is responsible for their own actions and situations so really the ball is in her court. All u can do is be there for her when and if the time ever comes.