Poor punts

[Forceuser]

to be honest the amount of catfishing using the favourites list that i've encountered in the last
while has kinda killed my enthusiasm for visiting much anymore

the thought of the whole rigmarole of checking the ad,checking on the phone if the favs advertised
are really available,verifying in person on arrival that there was no misunderstanding
only for it to become obvious when donations are handed over that they were never an option, all
just makes me feel tired and go "fuck it,i'm just not going to bother!"

[Clubcard]

Would it not be fair to say that there are enough inconsistencies in that lady's review history to warn you to maybe give her a swerve?

You would think that but I had a similar experience with a well reviewed lady recently. Total lack of interest from her, Room littered with half eaten takeaways , bin overflowing with rubbish. Phones constantly on the go and my real pet hate....damp used towels.

As her profile was top notch as were all of her reviews I stupidly assumed everything would be better than good. It wasnt and I didnt bother reviewing as It would only get deleted anyways.

Really makes you appreciate the girls that put in the effort.

[AmbiValent]

How could a provider get away with such poor service and maintain good standing ?

Well I can only assume that she provides a reasonable service maybe some or most of the time. If an attractive escort is friendly and provides a modicum of effort then she's 95% of the way to a positive review.

Would it not be fair to say that there are enough inconsistencies in that lady's review history to warn you to maybe give her a swerve?

Hard to know for sure without falling victim to confirmation bias and 20/20 hindsight. She did have a very few negative reviews which obviously became more significant after the visit . Pre-visit it was far easier to dismiss them for various reasons when there was such an amount of positive reviews. I guess when you catch her on a bad day then it's really bad. Hey, punting is gamblng so there are no guarantees even with research. Just got to take it on the chin and move on.

to be honest the amount of catfishing using the favourites list that i've encountered in the last
while has kinda killed my enthusiasm for visiting much anymore

the thought of the whole rigmarole of checking the ad,checking on the phone if the favs advertised
are really available,verifying in person on arrival that there was no misunderstanding
only for it to become obvious when donations are handed over that they were never an option, all
just makes me feel tired and go "fuck it,i'm just not going to bother!"

Yeah, I'm currently on punting sabbatical also. I haven't visited in several months as visits were only so-so and when you get a run like that it's time to give it a rest and wait until the excellent escorts you visited before make a reappearance.
Some favourites like GFE and FK are meaningless on a profile as they're rarely really on offer in a meaningful way. Covid obviously has had an effect in that regard. Some guy started a thread recently asking where the good escorts are gone. He got slated for it, of course, but he was correct. A number of very good escorts have not been seen since early 2020 and are probably retired.

If you're living in the centre of Dublin or Belfast then perhaps you can still make choices with a high degree of reliability but the further away you are from there the choices diminish as do the odds of having a good experience.

[Larrii]

It helps to sit down for one minute at the start, before rushing into the shower, and discuss what you like and what her happy limits are. You'll also find out how good her english is. Eye contact and body language will tell you the rest. Then pay, then have your shower.

[TonyB]

I’ve also been very lucky , however I recently visited a lady who was just
Not interested in anything except taking the money and getting rid of me .
I should have known but her location was handy for me .

Where is the shit review?

[SteveB]

Where is the shit review?

Presumably in that black hole all such reviews end up in?

[Irelandbeautyyy]

It helps to sit down for one minute at the start, before rushing into the shower, and discuss what you like and what her happy limits are. You'll also find out how good her english is. Eye contact and body language will tell you the rest. Then pay, then have your shower.

I don't think it can be helpful to talk about everything in the beginning. In fact, you will probably be told everything what is in the profile...

The reality then unfolds about your attitude and especially the hygiene, which we are now discussing on our private forum. All commenting ones agreed that some clients would definitely need to work on their hygiene. Another important topic hygiene, which should be necessary for everyone of course, but a lot of men do not know how to wash themself. Sad fact.
So in many times is it useless to discuss something before the meeting...

Please, and i am speaking for all of us, nice attitude to the woman and excellent hygiene is a necessity for a pleasant meeting!!!

Instead of discussing favorites at the beginning of the meeting, communicate openly during the meeting, what is wrong, that you do not get what is written on the profile etc..I think this is much better idea. Unfortunately, the truth is sometimes difficult to listen and we dont want to hear it. I think rejecting favorites may have a reason as well as rushing. Ask the lady what is wrong.

Anyway how i said before, its probably better to visit a few ladies regularly who make you happy everytime.

[Noregrets]

Really people need to get a grip

You pay your money and hope for the best

Bit like going to a football match or a concert, some will be brilliant and some won't be.

Reminds me of the last time I went to the cinema, only about 10 people at the film , at the end someone stood up and said what a waste of a couple of hours and others agreed . As for me the film was crap but I knew my date loved it and it was out first proper date and it was one of the nicest nights I've ever had lol.