Heyyy... What's wrong?

[Eagle87]

Personally I think you should have left your old thread up what are the forms for if not to help newbies out. At least that's what they should be about if not what use are they. Unfortunately you do notice a hostile attitude from some posters to newbies from time to time.

I didn't delete it or ask for it to be deleted man.

And yeah, I get if an escort is suspicious because fuck knows what type of weird behaviour they've had to deal with in the past from fellas on here, but I did find it uncomfortable that other lads were treating me a bit oddly. Again, not knocking anybody. It is what it is.

[Eagle87]

There should be a sticky thread in the general chat section for the newbies to explain all to them

It might help answer all their questions instead of having multiple threads about being a newbie

I think that's a decent idea but the same advice isn't going to apply to every lad who's never got an escort before. It's not a one-size-fits-all type of thing I don't think. I'm nervous for reasons that other newbies might not be able to relate to, and they might be nervous about aspects of the encounter which doesn't frighten me or others in the slightest. I feel it's a case-by-case thing if that makes sense.

[DonDraper51]

It’s the same with any learning experience, you can study theory for ever but you can’t beat practical experience and you don’t get that by reading threads, all that does is develop self doubt, don’t overthink, pick up the phone

[Gthomas]

It’s the same with any learning experience, you can study theory for ever but you can’t beat practical experience and you don’t get that by reading threads, all that does is develop self doubt, don’t overthink, pick up the phone

Fully agree. Simple theory is different than practical theory. That's where newbies looking for... Bad experience is better than any type of theory. And all questions anybody asking its just about experience. Angry answers just putting away from these shares.
Point of this thread is that if someone in bad mood there's no need to leave bad comment. Sooner or later we all have to go through same point of experience. For some it's absolutely naturally, but someone gets in troubles. Then he need a proper answer. There's no need to laugh at him, leave bad comment.
Thanks

[DonDraper51]

Fully agree. Simple theory is different than practical theory. That's where newbies looking for... Bad experience is better than any type of theory. And all questions anybody asking its just about experience. Angry answers just putting away from these shares.
Point of this thread is that if someone in bad mood there's no need to leave bad comment. Sooner or later we all have to go through same point of experience. For some it's absolutely naturally, but someone gets in troubles. Then he need a proper answer. There's no need to laugh at him, leave bad comment.
Thanks

even a bad experience is an experience worth having, you never lose from an experience even a bad one, you always learn

[philipkntz]

Every cloud has a silver lining. When you have a bad experience, check the profile again. Make a note of the reviewers that left glowing reviews and ignore their reviews in future.

[DonDraper51]

Every cloud has a silver lining. When you have a bad experience, check the profile again. Make a note of the reviewers that left glowing reviews and ignore their reviews in future.

Exactly, there’s learning everywhere if you’re willing to look

[The D Man]

I think that's a decent idea but the same advice isn't going to apply to every lad who's never got an escort before. It's not a one-size-fits-all type of thing I don't think. I'm nervous for reasons that other newbies might not be able to relate to, and they might be nervous about aspects of the encounter which doesn't frighten me or others in the slightest. I feel it's a case-by-case thing if that makes sense.

It does make sense

As others have said you learn by experiences whether you deem them good or bad

Sometimes when nervous or thinking about situations the individual can think of all the possible bad things that could happen when in actual fact it is a positive outcome that happens

[Eagle87]

It does make sense

As others have said you learn by experiences whether you deem them good or bad

Sometimes when nervous or thinking about situations the individual can think of all the possible bad things that could happen when in actual fact it is a positive outcome that happens

No I know but there's things you can do ahead of time to tip the odds in your favour of it being a good experience rather than a bad one. Any new experience is pretty much a minefield and the more mines you know the location of in advance, the better your chances of making it across safely. And that's the goal in me booking an escort, to ensure the appointment goes as smoothly as possible, for both of us, and hopefully emerge from the meeting with a second wind in regards to sexual confidence. That's really what it's about for me. If you offered me the chance to have the most intense and powerful orgasm ever, but receive no feeling of restored sexual confidence from the encounter, or receive no orgasm whatsoever and yet still leave that room feeling like a different man, I'm choosing the second option. No brainer. Orgasms last a few seconds - the feeling of sexual confidence and heightened sex appeal you take everywhere with you. You take it to the pub, to Tesco, on a Dart, your office. It's like an imaginary limb, but one that can be broken nonetheless and here I am, on an escort forum, looking into getting it fixed. This isn't about getting a quick fuck. It's so much deeper and so much more personal for me. And yes, I know I've spoken a lot about it and done nothing yet. I still haven't reached out to a single lady, but mainly because I can't spare the money and won't be able to for another two weeks, so it's pointless. Cheers.