Becoming Friends with an Escort

[Meursault]

Unfortunately so. Hopefully it will change whereby it's as socially acceptable as any other service industry. But in my experience most escorts don't want to be friends with clients.

On three occasions down through the years I have met escorts out and about and they all turned and walked the other way when we made eye contact. Having said that I do tend to have that affect on women in general ��.

That is not a bad thing if you want strings free sex. I would never dream of having a fling with someone who i work with or someone who lives in the area. It is just going to create hassle and life is already hard enough, especially in this pandemic. That is the bonus of visiting escorts, the sex is hassle free.

[Barney Rubble]

And would you introduce them to your family and other friends as an escort or former escort?

Why would I have to explain their occupation to anyone?
I have friends that don't know other friends of mine and likewise don't know my family and if I was introducing any of them their occupation would never be mentioned .

The question was could I be friends with an escort. My answer is yes, simple as that.

[jre679]

And are you?

Nope. I've only been escorting for around 10 months. 10 years from now who knows? I'm just saying i'd be open to it.

[mrcumalot]

Why would I have to explain their occupation to anyone?
I have friends that don't know other friends of mine and likewise don't know my family and if I was introducing any of them their occupation would never be mentioned .

The question was could I be friends with an escort. My answer is yes, simple as that.

But if it did come up in conversation would you feel comfortable telling your friends?

[Dub Lad]

But if it did come up in conversation would you feel comfortable telling your friends?

Why would your friend being an escort come up in conversation, I have different groups of friends like if I was going out with my work friends I don't go into details aout my other friends personal lives let alone occupations

[beautyaddict]

I have made friends with several women who happen to be or have been escorts . Suggesting that this cannot occur based on a "Rule" about telling others is bogus bullshit and only further isolates the profession.

If you are going to bring an escort current or retired into your personal life you both take an element of risk. If you cannot be man enough to deal with that dont but do not lay down a must declare all or nothing rule. It is not your decision alone . All adults make compromises in life . All are entitled to move on with their lives and not be branded for one part of their lives
Being an escort is not robbery assault or murder , so stop stigmatizing/isolating these women as forever different.

[mrcumalot]

Why would your friend being an escort come up in conversation, I have different groups of friends like if I was going out with my work friends I don't go into details aout my other friends personal lives let alone occupations

I am talking a hypothetical situation. I know for a fact if I introduced someone I knew to my friends assuming I introduced them by name the next two questions would be where are you from? What do you do?

And I don't think that would be unusual.In fact if we were in each other's company for a period of time it would be very unusual if those questions weren't asked if only to make conversation and make the person feel included.

[mrcumalot]

I have made friends with several women who happen to be or have been escorts . Suggesting that this cannot occur based on a "Rule" about telling others is bogus bullshit and only further isolates the profession.

If you are going to bring an escort current or retired into your personal life you both take an element of risk. If you cannot be man enough to deal with that dont but do not lay down a must declare all or nothing rule. It is not your decision alone . All adults make compromises in life . All are entitled to move on with their lives and not be branded for one part of their lives
Being an escort is not robbery assault or murder , so stop stigmatizing/isolating these women as forever different.

So I assume you have done then? What was your friends reaction?

[beautyaddict]

So I assume you have done then? What was your friends reaction?

Trying to be clever are we?
just what age are you . read my post again slowly perhaps

[Barney Rubble]

But if it did come up in conversation would you feel comfortable telling your friends?

You're like a dog with a bone aren't you ! That totally depends on the circumstances.
Maybe the lady in question wouldn't want her profession discussed or maybe she would have no problem with it.

I have in the past been in the company of people who definitely didn't want me discussing their occupation. During the troubles this could have been a matter of life and death.
I have been introduced with an alteration to my first name as an Irish first name is like wearing your ashes on Ash Wednesday - spot the taig !

I don't think introducing an escort could ever be life threatening.

Why do you keep asking the same question anyway ?Are you thinking of taking a lady home to meet Mummy and Daddy ?