Screening clients

[Stephanie]

I had a big reply posted, didn't like something I typed, tried editing and for some reason it ended up being deleted so I'll try to remember most of what I posted.

I said a jump, not a quick jump. Perhaps the wrong terminology but I usually check on a daily basis who's coming to my location and work out when I could possibly see them. I only get two days off a fortnight as I work a lot of ot to try and kill off huge credit card debt so I only have a small window in which I'd be suitably attired to meet up. I'll have my eye on someone a few days in advance but before I get the chance to contact them, life gets in the way. When life decides to let me get on with my business, I'll phone about an hour before I intend to meet up. What happens within that hour if the one reference I have can't be contacted? I'm turned down?

Now I have no issue if upon arrival, a lady wishes to see a form of photo identification. That form of identification never leaves my line of sight nor is it copied in any way.

Which brings me to this part of your comment

"I’ve started asking for photo ID / or references

from Well Established Ladies the gentleman has visited before .

: I’ve had no difficulties , photos have been sent forth"

Now that suggests to me photographs are being passed about. Where is the anonymity? The infamous list was just phone numbers, locations and a wee comment, now we have photographs. Are there comments attached to these as well as locations and phone numbers? I'd be absolutely furious if my picture is going about the network as I've never gave my consent for it to be taken.

As I have said, I will produce photographic evidence when asked, the references are flawed. My name as far as everyone knows is Tony Stark, my real name isn't attached to this nor is any other details about me or a photograph. I'm just a name on a forum except for the mods who know my email etc...

What's to stop someone phoning a lady, possibly you, claiming to be Tony Stark, you don't know me or my voice. This person rhymes off a few names they have saw from my reviews, you go and check this and my one and only reference. Everything checks out, "seems like a nice enough guy, no hassle ", happy days I'll accept the booking, next thing is some nutjob turns up. You've done your checks yet still went pear shaped.

Yes you've got to be vigilant esp seeing those with the power seem to be unwilling to change the law regarding decriminalisation. The reference system can be frustrating for those with a small window and can also be abused. Photographic identification is the way to go but not to the point where the identification is copied and shared.

1. : Private Matter , we as Providers have Nothing to do with how / or how responsibly you lead your life

or what financial obligations you have compiled .

2 . : I won’t get into the depth of your trying to divert attention from the matter at hand :

: not by responding to your attempt at discrediting me by bringing up ‘privacy’ issues >

: if my men are confident enough to comply with my requests in order to see me and spend time with me ,

what is that to you , me ‘friend’ ?



Clearly you have been here a Lot longer than I .

Cry me a River .

Ya want ya ‘hole’ - call and stand in line .




You would like to see a Specific Lady , you shall abide by her requests for verification .

What is so difficult about this ??

[Stephanie]

I had a big reply posted, didn't like something I typed, tried editing and for some reason it ended up being deleted so I'll try to remember most of what I posted.

I said a jump, not a quick jump. Perhaps the wrong terminology but I usually check on a daily basis who's coming to my location and work out when I could possibly see them. I only get two days off a fortnight as I work a lot of ot to try and kill off huge credit card debt so I only have a small window in which I'd be suitably attired to meet up. I'll have my eye on someone a few days in advance but before I get the chance to contact them, life gets in the way. When life decides to let me get on with my business, I'll phone about an hour before I intend to meet up. What happens within that hour if the one reference I have can't be contacted? I'm turned down?

Now I have no issue if upon arrival, a lady wishes to see a form of photo identification. That form of identification never leaves my line of sight nor is it copied in any way.

Which brings me to this part of your comment

"I’ve started asking for photo ID / or references

from Well Established Ladies the gentleman has visited before .

: I’ve had no difficulties , photos have been sent forth"

Now that suggests to me photographs are being passed about. Where is the anonymity? The infamous list was just phone numbers, locations and a wee comment, now we have photographs. Are there comments attached to these as well as locations and phone numbers? I'd be absolutely furious if my picture is going about the network as I've never gave my consent for it to be taken.

As I have said, I will produce photographic evidence when asked, the references are flawed. My name as far as everyone knows is Tony Stark, my real name isn't attached to this nor is any other details about me or a photograph. I'm just a name on a forum except for the mods who know my email etc...

What's to stop someone phoning a lady, possibly you, claiming to be Tony Stark, you don't know me or my voice. This person rhymes off a few names they have saw from my reviews, you go and check this and my one and only reference. Everything checks out, "seems like a nice enough guy, no hassle ", happy days I'll accept the booking, next thing is some nutjob turns up. You've done your checks yet still went pear shaped.

Yes you've got to be vigilant esp seeing those with the power seem to be unwilling to change the law regarding decriminalisation. The reference system can be frustrating for those with a small window and can also be abused. Photographic identification is the way to go but not to the point where the identification is copied and shared.

// generally speaking a couple of Hours plenty of time to see if you are a ‘compatible’ companion

[funboy71]

The easiest thing anyone can give another human being as it costs you NOTHING!!!!!

And in my experience if you give it you will receive it!!!!

Respect .

Plain and simple .

I’m discombobulated and befuddled at such question posed !

Escorts are People - same as You ( well ... , not like ‘you’ specifically )



: What do You want in life ? how would You want to be treated ?

As a nameless piece of breathing commodity to be used to its end : any industry / kitchens , hotels , etc. ;

Or : as an Equal human being ; and Individual with individual needs and standards and Values !!??



: what ? You cattle or sum ?

Even field cows have Names and their preferences and needs be Known and catered to �� ! ...

[TonyStark]

1. : Private Matter , we as Providers have Nothing to do with how / or how responsibly you lead your life

or what financial obligations you have compiled .

2 . : I won’t get into the depth of your trying to divert attention from the matter at hand :

: not by responding to your attempt at discrediting me by bringing up ‘privacy’ issues >

: if my men are confident enough to comply with my requests in order to see me and spend time with me ,

what is that to you , me ‘friend’ ?



Clearly you have been here a Lot longer than I .

Cry me a River .

Ya want ya ‘hole’ - call and stand in line .




You would like to see a Specific Lady , you shall abide by her requests for verification .

What is so difficult about this ??

Ah so hostile

First part was explaining that some people have a small window of opportunity. You want to focus on tiny details, that's your issue.

You won't respond to me trying to "discredit you", clearly you did. Not sure how I was discrediting you but surely sharing photographs of clients in a world where websites can be hacked is not very smart nor does it make it anonymous. How would you like it if clients were to take pictures of you and pass it around other clients?

Now as I have mentioned, and you chose to ignore, I have no issue providing photographic identification as long as it doesn't have my sight and it's not copied. I also have concerns about the length of time it takes between trying to contact other ladies to see if they have met a particular person who might not even that person on the phone.

Not sure what the length of time either of us have been on the forum has to with anything. If you want to get all aggressive over reasonable arguments, that's your problem not mine.

[Stephanie]

I had a big reply posted, didn't like something I typed, tried editing and for some reason it ended up being deleted so I'll try to remember most of what I posted.

I said a jump, not a quick jump. Perhaps the wrong terminology but I usually check on a daily basis who's coming to my location and work out when I could possibly see them. I only get two days off a fortnight as I work a lot of ot to try and kill off huge credit card debt so I only have a small window in which I'd be suitably attired to meet up. I'll have my eye on someone a few days in advance but before I get the chance to contact them, life gets in the way. When life decides to let me get on with my business, I'll phone about an hour before I intend to meet up. What happens within that hour if the one reference I have can't be contacted? I'm turned down?

Now I have no issue if upon arrival, a lady wishes to see a form of photo identification. That form of identification never leaves my line of sight nor is it copied in any way.

Which brings me to this part of your comment

"I’ve started asking for photo ID / or references

from Well Established Ladies the gentleman has visited before .

: I’ve had no difficulties , photos have been sent forth"

Now that suggests to me photographs are being passed about. Where is the anonymity? The infamous list was just phone numbers, locations and a wee comment, now we have photographs. Are there comments attached to these as well as locations and phone numbers? I'd be absolutely furious if my picture is going about the network as I've never gave my consent for it to be taken.

As I have said, I will produce photographic evidence when asked, the references are flawed. My name as far as everyone knows is Tony Stark, my real name isn't attached to this nor is any other details about me or a photograph. I'm just a name on a forum except for the mods who know my email etc...

What's to stop someone phoning a lady, possibly you, claiming to be Tony Stark, you don't know me or my voice. This person rhymes off a few names they have saw from my reviews, you go and check this and my one and only reference. Everything checks out, "seems like a nice enough guy, no hassle ", happy days I'll accept the booking, next thing is some nutjob turns up. You've done your checks yet still went pear shaped.

Yes you've got to be vigilant esp seeing those with the power seem to be unwilling to change the law regarding decriminalisation. The reference system can be frustrating for those with a small window and can also be abused. Photographic identification is the way to go but not to the point where the identification is copied and shared.

... and therein comes the wonderful PM system into play .

.... : but you Know all that lol .

[TonyStark]

... and therein comes the wonderful PM system into play .

.... : but you Know all that lol .

Yeah, until of course the lady doesn't have access to the internet as a previous lady I met apologised for replying late to a pm.

"but you Know all that "

How condescending.

[MarkM2020]

After 500+ posts on this thread, anyone who still doesn't get screening and the difference ways of screening despite it being explained numerous times simply doesn't want to get it.

[Stephanie]

I had a big reply posted, didn't like something I typed, tried editing and for some reason it ended up being deleted so I'll try to remember most of what I posted.

I said a jump, not a quick jump. Perhaps the wrong terminology but I usually check on a daily basis who's coming to my location and work out when I could possibly see them. I only get two days off a fortnight as I work a lot of ot to try and kill off huge credit card debt so I only have a small window in which I'd be suitably attired to meet up. I'll have my eye on someone a few days in advance but before I get the chance to contact them, life gets in the way. When life decides to let me get on with my business, I'll phone about an hour before I intend to meet up. What happens within that hour if the one reference I have can't be contacted? I'm turned down?

Now I have no issue if upon arrival, a lady wishes to see a form of photo identification. That form of identification never leaves my line of sight nor is it copied in any way.

Which brings me to this part of your comment

"I’ve started asking for photo ID / or references

from Well Established Ladies the gentleman has visited before .

: I’ve had no difficulties , photos have been sent forth"

Now that suggests to me photographs are being passed about. Where is the anonymity? The infamous list was just phone numbers, locations and a wee comment, now we have photographs. Are there comments attached to these as well as locations and phone numbers? I'd be absolutely furious if my picture is going about the network as I've never gave my consent for it to be taken.

As I have said, I will produce photographic evidence when asked, the references are flawed. My name as far as everyone knows is Tony Stark, my real name isn't attached to this nor is any other details about me or a photograph. I'm just a name on a forum except for the mods who know my email etc...

What's to stop someone phoning a lady, possibly you, claiming to be Tony Stark, you don't know me or my voice. This person rhymes off a few names they have saw from my reviews, you go and check this and my one and only reference. Everything checks out, "seems like a nice enough guy, no hassle ", happy days I'll accept the booking, next thing is some nutjob turns up. You've done your checks yet still went pear shaped.

Yes you've got to be vigilant esp seeing those with the power seem to be unwilling to change the law regarding decriminalisation. The reference system can be frustrating for those with a small window and can also be abused. Photographic identification is the way to go but not to the point where the identification is copied and shared.

I agree !

I ask for my personal safety only , and once I’ve met and know a person : I ain’t aiming for an album .

After I’ve met someone : if an other Provider would ask for a reference - they’d have to trust my Standing

and my Word . I would have absolutely no intention nor would I forward a photo . : a verbal description: Yes .

But photo , No .


My Word is good . I keep it private . I help others . I’m no showboat . Do it on qt .

Girls who don’t even post but I’ve known for Years , we are good to each other . It’s a treasure

[176x]

Still don't understand why Yas make it so complicated.
Ring book avail and leave.
Wtf do I need to prove and plus you'll be licking ya lips when ya see me turn up

[Stephanie]

Have you ever been to the Netherlands S ?

Yes xxx been xx tourist / 10 characters xx