Originally Posted by
Paddy Kenny
Hey,
Maybe an unusual post, its my first, be gentle!
I have been with a number of escorts recently and I am seriously beating myslef up over this. I mean seriously. I always leave the lady saying I will never do this again, but I feel I am getting a compulsion to continue.
I have three main fears and giving that while with a no of escorts, the number is low enough to still hold these.
Is what I am doing morally wrong. I am young and single and meet girls ordinarily and pretty often, but this.. Am I bringing pain to these girls? Am I gonna suffer long term..
Is what I am doing illegal, excuse my ignorance, but theres conflicting info on line on this.
Is there much danger. I have been OK so far, but I fear getting attacked or worse. Friends have said quite rightly, you dont if your being set uop for a fall
Appreciate advice. Ta
Worried Dub
Well Paddy your first post is worth a response so here's rimmers 2 cents worth !
Is what you/i/we doing morally wrong . Yes and No i say . Yes in some cases because some may say that we are taking advantage of the women involved and abusing them for our own sexual gratification . Personally i have never felt that way and have never met an escort that gave me that impression . Maybe in yrs to come , the girls may develop mental issues due to the nature of their "job" and that could be the pain to which you are referring to . Will you suffer long term ? Who knows what suffering life will bring to anybody but if you are honest with yourself and the escort during your sessions , then you should be just fine . But remember to go to confession !!!!
Is it legal ? Well it is if there is only one escort there , 2 escorts constitute a brothel and that's illegal . Why do you leave always to say to yourself that you will not do it again ? Is it a financial issue or do you feel you have cheapened yourself in some way by paying for sex ?
Is there much danger of being attacked ? I'd say that you are over analysing each visit to the extreme , i mean if you think about it you could be involved in a car crash on the way to your next appointment but you don't think about that . Or do you !
My advice is to carry on if you can overcome these issues , hopefully more will post their views and treat an escort with the respect that they deserve and you'll be alright on the night
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