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    I'm pretty sure most men would have a problem with it. I would want to know anyway so i could atleast weigh up my options before proceeding any further with the relationship.


    Is the girl going to continue escorting?

    If the answer is no then i would definitely consider continuing to go out with this girl,especially if we were getting on so well,but i just couldn't go out with a working escort.

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    I just wondered as 'punters' and you all have your own reasons for visiting WGs, if it would be acceptable to you to have one as a girlfriend.

    And Luther, thanks, I'm not looking, but who knows - maybe one day.........quite enjoying being single again.

    I've only ever met one other WG that was married, and they were heavily into swinging too, and got his rocks off when she came home at night and told him her her day at 'the office'

    How was your day dear ????

    WELL.............

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylor of Manchester View Post
    And Luther, thanks, I'm not looking, but who knows - maybe one day.........
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    Patricia I've said it before, we need a sad/brokenhearted/tearful smilie in here............

    I'll wait with baited breath.....................










    Always good to read the small print at the bottom eh...................
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    Quote Originally Posted by luther View Post
    Patricia I've said it before, we need a sad/brokenhearted/tearful smilie in here............

    I'll wait with baited breath.....................
    lol

    I'm a alot of things, but none of the above!!!!

    And yes Westie, it is about trust, but also the nature of the job.

    I couldn't go out with a male escort, yes - pot, kettle and all that, but I think it would drive me nuts, knowing how he was spending his working day..........if that makes any sense ??

    T
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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylor of Manchester View Post
    lol

    I'm a alot of things, but none of the above!!!!
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    The above was describing me................ I'm not good with rejection...................................
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    Default Thats where drawing the line comes in

    Quote Originally Posted by Taylor of Manchester View Post
    lol

    , but I think it would drive me nuts, knowing how he was spending his working day..........if that makes any sense ??
    I would not go out with an escort that does GFE because i kiss a gf and i expect a gf to kiss me.no way would i go out with a girl that kisses clients but then again i would have to take her word for it that she doesnt.I know this GFE thing is popular but to me it means absolutly nothing because as far as im concerned ,unless its acting on screen,then you kiss your partner.So thats out.
    I also wouldnt go out with an escort that does OWO because there is a risk ,a small risk ,but a risk all the smae and im sorry but my health is too important to me even for a small risk.
    I wouldnt go out with an escort that does sleepovers.Again i sleep with a lover or partner.Ok one night stands happen but im sure you get my drift.I also wouldnt go out with a travelling escort becuase it just wouldnt work out.I dont believe in long distance relationships.

    Now reading all the above,i am not a jealous guy nor an obcessive guy so i can only imagine the trauma it would cause a guy that is.

    To me trust is everything in life.In friendships,in relationships.Break my trust once and it will never go back.I wouldnt get nasty or anything but i would defo step back a fair distance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tommy Singh View Post
    I would not go out with an escort that does GFE because i kiss a gf and i expect a gf to kiss me.no way would i go out with a girl that kisses clients but then again i would have to take her word for it that she doesnt.I know this GFE thing is popular but to me it means absolutly nothing because as far as im concerned ,unless its acting on screen,then you kiss your partner.So thats out.
    I also wouldnt go out with an escort that does OWO because there is a risk ,a small risk ,but a risk all the smae and im sorry but my health is too important to me even for a small risk.
    I wouldnt go out with an escort that does sleepovers.Again i sleep with a lover or partner.Ok one night stands happen but im sure you get my drift.I also wouldnt go out with a travelling escort becuase it just wouldnt work out.I dont believe in long distance relationships.

    Now reading all the above,i am not a jealous guy nor an obcessive guy so i can only imagine the trauma it would cause a guy that is.

    To me trust is everything in life.In friendships,in relationships.Break my trust once and it will never go back.I wouldnt get nasty or anything but i would defo step back a fair distance.

    Westside.
    There is much more to a relationship than sex. I would expect my partner to "drop her guard" and talk honestly about herself, her hopes, her fears and other such intimate details that she would never discuss with a client. For her, sex would probably be the least intimate part of the relationship.. Sex is just a physical expression of love, but true love comes from honest communication and a meeting of minds
    She could kiss who she likes, but I would be secure in the knowledge that I alone shared sonething special way above the physical with her.
    True love means having someone who gen cares for you and who is thoughtful and supportive. Sex is just a moment, cymbols clashing in the symphony of your life together.

    Let the band play on, brothers and sisters

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    Quote Originally Posted by ubik View Post
    There is much more to a relationship than sex. I would expect my partner to "drop her guard" and talk honestly about herself, her hopes, her fears and other such intimate details that she would never discuss with a client. For her, sex would probably be the least intimate part of the relationship.. Sex is just a physical expression of love, but true love comes from honest communication and a meeting of minds
    She could kiss who she likes, but I would be secure in the knowledge that I alone shared sonething special way above the physical with her.
    True love means having someone who gen cares for you and who is thoughtful and supportive. Sex is just a moment, cymbols clashing in the symphony of your life together.

    Let the band play on, brothers and sisters
    Understand that with OWO or other risky stuff (small risk is still risk) its purely from health perspective.

    I understand what your saying but there are a few ways of expressing ones love for someone and kissing or hugging is one.Try to have a decent relationship and express your love for someone without kissing.Cant be done.Yes there is alot more to a relationship than sex but to me some things are speicial to the realtionship and kissing is one of them.Thats not to say that i wouldnt kiss an escort if i liked her.I wont be a hypocrite but for me,i prefer if the kissing was kept for what its for.An expression of affection for another.

    Understand what your saying though,
    Westside.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylor of Manchester View Post
    lol

    I'm a alot of things, but none of the above!!!!

    And yes Westie, it is about trust, but also the nature of the job.

    I couldn't go out with a male escort, yes - pot, kettle and all that, but I think it would drive me nuts, knowing how he was spending his working day..........if that makes any sense ??

    T
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    It's a bit different I think though, cos the chances are if you were with a male escort he would have been taking cock all day too!

    I reckon it could definitely spice up a relationship at the early stages.
    And i'd definitely want to know.
    but it would either put a definite best before date on the relationship or if my feelings continued to develop she would have ot find a different way to earn money.

    dom

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    Default funny old world innit

    Sex Sex Sex Sex Sex eh ! what a subject

    - everyone and i mean everyone is uptight about it - we use the phrase 'to sleep with' when actually we mean to fuck ! - having an affair - means fucking each other but we just cant come out and say it like that can we ? always there is this cloak and dagger around the whole subject.


    let me ask a question - you are falling in love with someone - hey you actually do fall for them - but you find out that they murdered someone previously (lets say it was in a bank robbery)- can u love them - would you feel more uptight about them had they been an escort ? bet u would...

    sexycoolbabe said it as it really is - obviously you can separate reality from fantasy ! if anyone deserves love its you.

    mind you some folks live like monks - do all the right things - voluntary work - greenpeace yada yada yada and they end up in as fucked up a relationship as is imaginable.

    just all a roll fo the dice folks- nothing else.

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