Originally Posted by
DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon
Of course. Some girls will. Non-sex workers.
Sex workers?
Can - but they tend to be in the minority.
Why?
Cause a sex workers very business model depends on being "in control".
Cause it's a big nasty world - and if you don't got that barrier or some kind of established validation - prepare to get butt fucked.
Business like?
Numb.
That numb sensation - i.e. no sensation.
That's business like.
I guess you're interpreting things from the traditional Irish/Catholic view point - where pleasurable sex leads to bonding, potential heartbreak etc.
Nuh. It don't work like that.
Heightened emotion - doesn't mean an emotional bond. Often the opposite.
To be touched in a very intimate place - it can bring out all kinds of feelings.
Conveying disgust can be like, a defense mechanism.
Again - your interpretation of "touched emotionally" seems to suggest some kind of lovey-dovey bond.
It's not like that.
They understand perfectly well what's up.
Some dude is about to fuck their brains out.
Can they?
I guess they can; some.
But then - you have the phenomenon of what is known as, "regret sex" - where they feel, having being touched in such a forbidden spot, felt so good - then basically ditched - it's like a slight to their personal sense of validation.
And validation is sacred to people - especially women.
To answer your question - if you think the majority of gals, especially sex workers, can get fucked properly (not the numbed out, "oh baby yeah that's sooooo good" kind) - and take an, "it is what it is" attitude - then I have some land in Alaska to sell you.
So you can't speak on behalf of girls - but none the less - you've spoken on their behalf, in fairly definitive fashion.
Someones sense of validation - when it's called into question - that is EXACTLY what it does.
They begin to question themselves, their life decisions, everything.
It is intrinsic to our thought process, our emotional regulation, our energy, productivity, mood - everything.
Listen - if a good time was had be all, and they part on good company - then it's all good.
But say - say I fucked a gal and rocked her world - then kicked her ass to the pavement with a taxi fair taped to her forehead the next morning - best believe there's gonna be some spurious charges filed against me shortly thereafter.
For a dude - it don't work like that.