Wives, partners and girlfriends

[Bubba07]

Im in the very same boat as you my man, and nothing is happingin our bedroom for a long time, i should grow a back bone and walk but i cant 🙈🙈🙈

[ford pefect]

Myself and my wife have a very poor sex life ,
She is not as sexual as me , but also now finds it uncomfortable which she only told me recently.
So I had a rethink , as everything else is very good , I am happy to visit escorts for my fun and pleasure , and continue our marriage.
Maybe not exactly ideal but it can work

[fordescort1]

Same here ford perfect. I love my girlfriend, she fulfills me in every other way. But she finds sex uncomfortable like yours, its medical thing, can't get wet, lube works but she still finds it incredibly sore so as it gets awkward I just see escorts for sex so not to upset her when she doesn't want to do it

[bmw528]

Myself and my wife have a very poor sex life ,
She is not as sexual as me , but also now finds it uncomfortable which she only told me recently.
So I had a rethink , as everything else is very good , I am happy to visit escorts for my fun and pleasure , and continue our marriage.
Maybe not exactly ideal but it can work

If it works for you and it s on a dont need to know basis then thats the way it is. I am sure you love her as much as you did when you met her regardless of sex. Thats the point i was making to Mr Sweet Guy. From my own experiences we can all feel guilty about stuff that we do. In my opinion and its only my opinion you will keep your relationship safe. There are so many different situations that we can find ourselves in it can play on our minds .

[ford pefect]

Good and funny comment zilch , it’s not black and white , although Henry might have disagreed 👍👍😂😂

[willie wacker]

Thats a common fault with the fords.
Take them back and get them retuned

I hear ya's though

You mean HENRY will exchange the wife’s for them

[AhSomeDude]

I'm in the same boat as a lot of people here....sex just isn't what I want at home.
I've actually spoken with herself about it so she knows I'm not happy but doesn't seem too bothered about doing anything about it.
As for my part I stay groomed and resist un-sexy things like farting that seem to just become acceptable in long term relationships.
I've also tried the things she says turn her on but bottom line is she's just not all that bothered about sex.
For me I feel like it's at the fuckin core of my being! Oxygen, water, food and SEX....in fact, reverse that list!!

The other side to things is how my perspective on life has changed over the years. Am I really OK with only ever having sex (rarely) with one woman?
How many fuckin times have you heard that variety is the spice of life and it's totally fine as long as you're not talking about sexual partners....
We only get one life why don't we LIVE?

[AhSomeDude]

Cheeky question but.....

Did yous marry the "Good Girl" the virgin the untouched?

Or were you brave and married a bit of a hussy?

If she was not into sex when you married did yous think she would change after the walk down the aisle?

So was she into sex then changed or not really into sex and stayed herself?

Was very into it and then changed....but honestly things were already fairly dull in that direction by the time we got married...what can I say I didn't marry her for the sex!

[AhSomeDude]

Was very into it and then changed....but honestly things were already fairly dull in that direction by the time we got married...what can I say I didn't marry her for the sex!

I just want to clarify... None of what is on my mind today regarding escorts was on my mind when we got married.....

[bmw528]

Early days. Went shopping for porn vids. Sex on a balcony while neighbour watched. BJ in office after hours. Sex on a train. Sex in shower.

Gradually down to once a week at most. Just about enough for me.

Post marriage. Went like a train when she wanted babies. Otherwise maybe every two weeks. Always in same bed. Same position. Same routine. Then down to very little, and " finish up now" type of comments.

I think with alot of people on the site the stories are very similar. We all wonder how does it happen but it seems very common with long term relationships.