Nervous first-timer seeking advice from experienced guys about escorts on here

[FargoBoyle]

Sorry that I have so many questions, I have tried to find these out by myself but it's hard to get clear information.

It would be amazingly helpful if someone would be kind enough to answer any of these that they know about...

I'm an extremely nervous, anxious type, it's just the way I am. I would love to visit an escort but I'm worried about privacy, discretion and both of our safety (in terms of the law)

1. When you visit an escort, are they usually in an apartment or a hotel?
2. Does the location tend to be discreet? As in, how obvious is it that you're there to visit an escort when you arrive? will be there other people around coming and going (just random people who live in the apartment building/work in the hotel etc.). I'm really worried about having to encounter people while getting in and out of whatever the location is...
3. The legality side of it. I've read some of the other threads here and (granted I understand it seems to be very unlikely to happen) but if the police did enter the place, under this new law you can actually be changed. Where is the line drawn in terms of legality? For example, are you breaking the law just by being inside the location at all? or does an act involving physical sexual contact have to take place?
4. I would be happy to pay the normal fee for her time just for company and for her to strip for me and no sex take place at all, is that illegal?

Basically I would really like to do this, but very very privately and with nobody breaking any laws. Is that simple just not possible in Ireland?

I realise many of you will probably think I'm being too worried/cautious but any help would be greatly appreciated.

Welcome shyguy, Bratsimpson1 yer man to talk to

anyway choose carefully here as a lot of girls share and with rents on the increase most are at it so you need to be careful as its a fecking brothel and the Guards love Brothels..
very few actually genuine independents to be honest but if you like the older lady try Sandy from across the water or Josephine from Belshaft,

[Johnchef42]

Hi

You're kinda not ready yet unless you're ok with breaking the law, in this instance, for this purpose.

As there are no proper definitions in place, a massage could be considered a sexual act, stripping too, phone sex. Anything and everything has been lumped together in one big undefined mess.

So you either think the law matters more or that your wants/needs matter more.

The only assurance I can give you is at least 60,000 clients have not been arrested since the law was signed in. And, there are shed loads of stupid/indiscreet/risky/dodgy looking clients out there ...apparently

If the idiots aren't getting caught then the smart ones should be ok.

60,000 is a staggering figure Sarah

[Johnchef42]

It's a wild underestimation John. Worded wrongly. Not clients but appointments.

Staggering still though

[Crashburnsraffo]

Sorry that I have so many questions, I have tried to find these out by myself but it's hard to get clear information.

It would be amazingly helpful if someone would be kind enough to answer any of these that they know about...

I'm an extremely nervous, anxious type, it's just the way I am. I would love to visit an escort but I'm worried about privacy, discretion and both of our safety (in terms of the law)

1. When you visit an escort, are they usually in an apartment or a hotel?
2. Does the location tend to be discreet? As in, how obvious is it that you're there to visit an escort when you arrive? will be there other people around coming and going (just random people who live in the apartment building/work in the hotel etc.). I'm really worried about having to encounter people while getting in and out of whatever the location is...
3. The legality side of it. I've read some of the other threads here and (granted I understand it seems to be very unlikely to happen) but if the police did enter the place, under this new law you can actually be changed. Where is the line drawn in terms of legality? For example, are you breaking the law just by being inside the location at all? or does an act involving physical sexual contact have to take place?
4. I would be happy to pay the normal fee for her time just for company and for her to strip for me and no sex take place at all, is that illegal?

Basically I would really like to do this, but very very privately and with nobody breaking any laws. Is that simple just not possible in Ireland?

I realise many of you will probably think I'm being too worried/cautious but any help would be greatly appreciated.

One way which you might find easier to start is go see someone that offers a massage service aswell and book a tantric massage for an hour..
That way your only commiting to have a massage (which should relieve most of your anxiety) but the option of more is there should you feel comfortable to indulge.

I can relate completely to your situation as i am very similar myself..

P.S I have not visited anyone on here yet for the same self inflicted anxiety as you but i have availed of body to body massages (from other advertising sites) and have found that this way definitely decreases the anxiety beforehand..

("Natasa Babe" is one who advertises on here that will be able to offer this service)

Sorry for long post but i hope it helps
You arent alone in the way you feel

[shyguy20173]

Please don't say sorry! this was really helpful and good to know I'm not alone in feeling this way.

[Crashburnsraffo]

You could try Michelle F for that (above suggestion)


https://www.escort-ireland.com/eroti...e-massage.html

She's a really nice girl

I havent had an appointment with anyone on here yet, i just had Tasha on my wishlist so she was the only one i knew offhand that provided both services..
Ill put Michelle on my wishlist aswell now that you recommend her..Thanks

[Barney Rubble]

It's a wild underestimation John. Worded wrongly. Not clients but appointments.

Jaysus that was a busy week Sarah

[Barney Rubble]

All: I really seriously, genuinely appreciate everyone's feedback. This has helped me a lot. Especially JAMESCORK, dave028, BillyGreenbush, LetsDoThis, LuckyLu, zilch, Amindimood55, MidlifeCrisis and a few others (as you can probably tell, I'm so green that I haven't figured out where the 'thank you' button is yet lol)

I think I've realised I do want to do this (again, I respect everyone's advice, even when it's telling me to not do this, we're all on different paths, in different situations here) but I just don't think I have the bottle to do it the normal way on the first time out.

I'm thinking that I'll stay in a hotel some night and ring someone to do an outcall to my room and this will be my way of easing myself into it/dipping my toe in, in a way that's less nerve wrecking for me (I am actually a bag of nerves just reading the (helpful!) feedback from the guys saying they were nervous trying to find the places on their first time.

Would anyone be so kind as to private message me what they think would be a good option for a hotel in the city centre of Dublin? (I'm guessing it's not so appropriate to name hotels right here in this thread). I'm sure you're way ahead of me on this but I'm obviously thinking of hotels which are the type where there's going to be plenty of girls nearby who will be happy to do an outcall there AND a place where there won't be much drama for her getting from the street up to the door of my room (e.g. not a place where you need a keycard to use the lift and that type of thing).

I'll stop annoying you guys with questions after this I promise but again I really thank you all, you guys are amazingly friendly and welcoming. Hopefully I'll be reporting back soon, saying that I was getting worked up over nothing

I think you need 10 posts to send or receive pm's or thank a post but I could be wrong

[randaddy2017]

If you have the money, I suggest meeting with a well-established escort for a longer appointment and starting it with a drink or two somewhere convenient/private. You must have had drinks with girls before and this should feel more "normal" for you. Then, after a drink or two, you take her to your hotel and give her a 5 star lip massage. I would recommend going with a girl that is renowned for giving a good GFE. There is all different styles to suit every taste. But to start off, you should take things kinda...vanilla.

Im not going to comment on the legality of punting. You need to settle that issue with yourself, in my opinion. Just be smart, and be safe.

Welcome to the board.

[shyguy20173]

If you have the money, I suggest meeting with a well-established escort for a longer appointment and starting it with a drink or two somewhere convenient/private. You must have had drinks with girls before and this should feel more "normal" for you. Then, after a drink or two, you take her to your hotel and give her a 5 star lip massage. I would recommend going with a girl that is renowned for giving a good GFE. There is all different styles to suit every taste. But to start off, you should take things kinda...vanilla.

Im not going to comment on the legality of punting. You need to settle that issue with yourself, in my opinion. Just be smart, and be safe.

Welcome to the board.

Thanks for the reply! Is that realistic though? That sounds ideal to me but would an escort really come meet me for a drink somewhere in public first before going somewhere private? (even if the drink in public was 'on the clock' so to speak). It seems like it wouldn't be worth their hassle to come out and have to meet me up first?