I know Tom It was your visitor message from New Year's day that made me think this was an unnecessary effort. Not you being easy I just wanted to point out the girls thinking on this one Tom
You are nice, he is "difficult."
You are right in what you say you also said in another post that you sometimes get offered a favertied that not on offer I also get that,
That's why on the profile the ladies have some favourites are at the ladies descrection. They may offer certain favourite to some guys and not to others which is their right.