Guess so when you go gym regularly , buy nice clothes, be well groomed as you can and be confident as you can and relaxed on a night out just to have a chat and meet a girl maybe in blue moon and then see some fat guy with a shirt 3 sizes too big and you can still see his belly with a wart on his nose slap a girls arse and she loving it you wonder what is fucking point when thats what they want to have sex with ?????