Dalton23 (03-05-16)
SophieX (03-05-16)
Forrest (03-05-16), funlover12 (03-05-16), Lucy Chambers (03-05-16)
It’s true for most cases, a guy that allows her girlfriend to work as an escort is very likely just controlling her. Not forcing her physically to work, because that would be a case of him going straight to jail. They basically figured out that a woman is capable to do anything for the man she loves and that’s how such a bf exploits her, by manipulation. But … it’s a big but here : ) there are also guys who simply love a woman enough to wait for her to reach a certain material goal so she could retire.
Nobody can judge unless you know the people involved.
I tend to avoid lengthy posts these days, but if you think about it, isn’t any relationship some sort of compromise? So even in the first case, as long as she is not mentally retarded, she probably knows she is being taken advantage of but she is desperate enough to try to make it work. Her life, her compromise, who are we to judge.
Dalton23 (03-05-16)
adding to the big but there on Amys post, what if a guy falls for a girl he knows is an escort or finds out that she is an escort and she doesn't want to stop working until she is ready to make the decision herself, would that guy be looked down on for respecting the wishes of the one he loves, is he to be faulted for his feelings and for his support for her in what she wants to do. it doesn't make him a pimp, or weak if anything the ability to love someone is such a situation shows more strength then anything else.
in my view anyway
Last edited by Pleasure seeker; 03-05-16 at 12:47.
Amy Alison (05-05-16)