Originally Posted by
ladiesman217
The review system, such as it is, is in my opinion extremely bad. I'm not going to go into the long 'n' short of it but speaking my own opinion, as a client, I do not like it one bit. Now before someone retorts saying "well why do you review??", let me stop you before you try insult me.
Look at my reviews. All positive. I have never nor will I ever leave a negative review. Truth be told the idea of reviewing another human being is degrading in my own personal opinion. Agree/disagree with me all you want, that needs no further discussion. The only reason I leave reviews for ladies is simply to thank them and hope that my review gives them more business.
We are talking about people's livelihoods here, in a very dangerous business. A business which is heavily influenced by this flawed review system. We've all seen the devastation false negative reviews can do.
So why don't I leave negative reviews? I have had engagements which would constitute a negative review. But again I do not leave one, for several reasons. The escort may just be having an off day for example. Maybe we just didn't click. I want no part whatsoever in influencing an escort's business negatively.
What about warning other clients, a foreshadowing stampede I can sense being posted below this. All I say is this: tough. Even as clients we take risks seeing escorts. To a certain extent it's a game of chance and as far as I'm concerned once you've handed over the envelope then that is it.
Escort not like the pictures? Leave. Environment hostile/uncomfortable? Leave. Once the door is opened and the envelope is handed over, you've entered into a business contract (non legal OBVIOUSLY so don't even start throwing that shit at me). You've taken the chance and if you're not happy at the end of your 30/60 minutes then you've only yourself to blame.
The elephant in the room: trafficking. This isn't so much to do with this thread but all things being equal I think it needs to be said. If at any point you feel the escort is being forced against their will THEN LEAVE IMMEDIATELY. Make your excuses and report it to the Gardai. DO NOT under any circumstances continue because.. well I hope I don't need to finish that sentence. If a only a single hair on your head is telling you something is not right, then leave. Forget about your money, that is literally the least important thing in the world at that moment. As I said, I just felt that this needed to be said given the nature of how these things can pan out.
And for those of you with any smart arse "white knight" comments or the like, please do the world a favour and shove a knife down your throat. The above is my honest opinion. You can agree with it, disagree with it. It matters not.
LDM
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Edit: do not bother directly replying to this in order to attempt to draw out a response from me. Everything I have to say on the matter is above and as such I will give attention to any replies. Case closed.