Awww Hotboy, I'm sorry to hear you feel that way I am far from qualified to give you advise but I would suggest that you speak to someone, be it a friend, family member or counselor. Letting feelings like this fester will only isolate you further. A problem shared is a problem halved as they say.
Finding love is never easy & often when we look for it, it becomes even more elusive. You seem very down on yourself but believe me, no one is perfect and we all have something to offer. We also all deserve happiness. I wish I had the right words for you or an easy answer but know you are not alone in how you feel. Only you can change the course of your life & your state of mind & you must believe that you are worth it. Please talk to someone about how you feel, I believe you'll be pleasantly surprised at how understanding your friends & family will be.
Stay strong, big hugs.
Natalie xxx
Melindablondey (11-12-15), tom sand (12-12-15)
Don't think like that, its like you have given up already, my friends uncle is single and 46 and is the shy type but has met a girl of 28 and been with her for 5 months and already she wants him to get them a place together and is talking about kids and marraige and no he's not rich or got 15 farms of land, met her and genuine lady, pretty too and i certainly wouldnt say no, see she is in love and age is no concern to her, I think they met on facebook too so all is not lost. good luck and chin up
Melindablondey (11-12-15), Naughtynatalie (11-12-15), tom sand (12-12-15)
Melindablondey (11-12-15), tom sand (12-12-15)
Hotbody I too have a lot of regrets. Have been in a few relationships even for a couple of years but always managed to fuck things up usually bein a selfish cunt . Anyway I'm almost 50 now & have only being in 1 relationship in well over 10 years & I decided to finish that 1 as she had kids & I was afraid that I would fuck things up again before the kids got too attached to me. True I do get lonely quite a lot but I have been alone so long that I would find it strange sharing my life fulltime with someone else. Having said that I am not a bad person by any means & am way more settled than years ago,not drinking near as much,going to work ,etc. So I may be getting on but I haven't given up hope yet. Live is precious & I know that I have wasted so much of it strap& hurt a lot of people along the way but I do feel that I'm a better person now & have a lot to give. So all I can say don't give up hope- Christ I have went on a bit there but my intentions are good. All the best mucker !! :-)
Melindablondey (12-12-15), tom sand (12-12-15)
That guy i spoke about above, his hair was receding quickly on the front and he use to laugh to us about how he needed to find a lady quickly before the thatch was blew of the roof completely, well he's bald now and he still got the girl, there's always light at the end of the tunnel
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Barney Rubble (12-12-15)