the problem with comments like that is just like the stigma round prostitution it comes from the person commenting not being able to get inside the head of another and to put it into a sentance "well If I dont like doing it noone else will"
Im making a point kl not a direct shot at you it just brings to mind this classic mentality of the torl brigade, saying that its slightly contradictory of you to be open minded about one and closed to the other