Escorts have an negative effect on your relationship with your partner

[Stevenn]

The fact alone that us married men feel the need to visit escorts already means that the marital relationship is damaged in some way already.
I'm can only go one of two ways after that. Deepen the rift and lead to a break up, or ease the fustration on the mans part and reduce the tension in the home.
Just a thought.

You limit yourself to those two options because you want to ease your own conscience and convince yourself that what you are doing is in some way the right thing to do. How about a third option? Ever consider talking to your wife perhaps and perhaps fixing the damage you've mentioned??

Exactly. If a man visits escorts he's doing his wife a favour and saving their relationship.

I don't think a wife would see it that way. Total cop out and another another lie that married men tell themselves to ease their conscience. Laughable really when you think about it.