Is it rude???

[Sonyaxx]

He made an assumption that the answer to the question would not get him a booking. You by the sound of it had not said anything of the sort, so he is in the wrong for assuming and then getting angry over nothing.

I've spoken to people on the phone and noted an accent and asked them where they were from and it was purely out of curiousity or I liked the sound of their voice etc.

I would not see a client that I could not communicate with, so I am more likely to refuse a booking if the accent is too strong to understand (where ever they are from) than their Nationality.

I know some ladies will not see guys from their home Country as well, which is not racist, it is just narrowing down the possibility of trouble further down the line.

I don't want to meet people from my home country so that was the main reason that i asked! Maybe he is ashamed with his nationality or more likely he can't speak english very good! But i'm sick of this kind of attitude!

[Sonyaxx]

you shouldn't, Romania is a beautiful country

Go and live there then!!

[circumcised guy]

No Sonya i wouldn't consider that a rude question at all how anyone would take it that way is beyond me. I wouldn't lose any sleep over that guy if i where you

[Sonyaxx]

you shouldn't, Romania is a beautiful country

Not in the mood to argue with you.. So nice try!

[Sonyaxx]

Guess you might not be meeting him then, attitude more than nationality.

Of course not!!!

[tony1]

Yes is racist to ask a punter what nationality he is.

...to ask a punter what nationality he is? Somebody wanted to book an appoiment for 9 pm but he claims he can't call me until 8 pm because he's at work! Then i asked him what nationality is and... BOOM!! I got 4 texts where he explain me that he has "loads of references" on EI& that i was very rude,and treat him without respect! I told him i just want to know who i am seeing and he told me that i am a racist!! Seriously??

[SmallHorn]

Yes is racist to ask a punter what nationality he is.

Actually its not......


You are deluded to think so.


Is asking a black man you meet on the street where he's from racist?


No

[justfrank44]

Yes is racist to ask a punter what nationality he is.

How is it racist, she was not making a judgement based on his race was she? Would asking him his age make her ageist ,

[justfrank44]

Didn't want to wet my afro…..

it was over hour ago, jeez, keep up



No, it is not….. i wouldn't see most nationalities but it doesn't make me a racist….

No, just make you a fussy hussy.

[The D Man]

...to ask a punter what nationality he is? Somebody wanted to book an appoiment for 9 pm but he claims he can't call me until 8 pm because he's at work! Then i asked him what nationality is and... BOOM!! I got 4 texts where he explain me that he has "loads of references" on EI& that i was very rude,and treat him without respect! I told him i just want to know who i am seeing and he told me that i am a racist!! Seriously??

No it is not rude. It is all about you feeling and being safe and comfortable. Some ladies here will not see people from certain nations and that is their right.