This new law -------- I will welcome it in a way

[Janko]

I'm talking about what you wrote, not the rest of the thread. You assume that the married clients are in happily married situations where their wives are devoted to them. How do you know that? It is very rare that a client tells me that he has a regular sex life with his partner (all though it does happen). As Liberty Love said, for many it is not the usual scenario they are looking for. They may have a fetish or a kink that they can't get at home.

No two people or relationships are the same. Many people in Ireland live in loveless relationships, as the stigma or cost of splitting ups is more than they can cope with. For some women once they have had children they see no need to continue intimacy with their partner and yet they may have another 20+ years together. If she is not prepared to talk about or compromise on that, then where does that leave him?

People are conditioned to see sex as a bad thing, or at best a means to an end (babies) and they are not meant to enjoy it. There are people out there that will not give or receive oral, because it is not necessary or seen as being disgusting. If people were allowed to embrace the bodies they were born in and learn to enjoy them, then there would be a lot less need for Sex Workers.

Lastly, we all have different levels of libido and it's all very well for someone with a low libido to tell someone with a high libido to get a grip and live without sex.

Okay one more point. What about those people who are married to someone who is disabled and unable to have sex with them? They still love each other, depend on each other and want to be together, but that area of the relationship can't be satisfied. Is it so wrong for them to seek intimacy to fill that void?

As I said, a lot of assumptions and you can't know why someone decides to see a Sex Worker or what environment they live in or if it is as simple as being unfaithful to a devoted partner.

There are many in a loving relationship also especially young couples and the guy keeps on seeing escorts, The guy loves his girl and the girl loves him but if he sees there is an easy opening there where he can see the escort while keeping it all secret he will does so. In the long run this can cause a strain on the relationship and with what is about to happen an embarrassment for all maybe too

[reg rider]

Relax Relax is a very strong possibility it may never happen is just a draft proposal and I don't think it even before the Parliament yet this could take years, The lads and ladies they do a lot of talking there?

[Genie in a Bottle]

Relax Relax is a very strong possibility it may never happen is just a draft proposal and I don't think it even before the Parliament yet this could take years, The lads and ladies they do a lot of talking there?

it will happen specially when them lot in the north put it through, if it had been rejected there might have been a slim chance and the government here is worst than them.
No good anyway as they won't listen and we are just wasting our time.

[Curvaceous Kate]

There are many in a loving relationship also especially young couples and the guy keeps on seeing escorts, The guy loves his girl and the girl loves him but if he sees there is an easy opening there where he can see the escort while keeping it all secret he will does so. In the long run this can cause a strain on the relationship and with what is about to happen an embarrassment for all maybe too

I think you will find this to be the minority and a very small section of who avail of the services of sex workers.

Being more mature I see a lot of the younger clients and it is very rare that they are in a relationship at all and if they are, it tends to be that the other party is abstaining from intimacy for one reason or another. As I said, it is rare that I get a client tell me that they have a normal or even adequate sex life at home. Plus a lot of the sex being had is not really two way, but more doing 'duty' as a wife and I think that is also not healthy in a relationship. Sex is not just about one person, it needs to be shared.

[brains2burn]

I think you will find this to be the minority and a very small section of who avail of the services of sex workers.

Being more mature I see a lot of the younger clients and it is very rare that they are in a relationship at all and if they are, it tends to be that the other party is abstaining from intimacy for one reason or another. As I said, it is rare that I get a client tell me that they have a normal or even adequate sex life at home. Plus a lot of the sex being had is not really two way, but more doing 'duty' as a wife and I think that is also not healthy in a relationship. Sex is not just about one person, it needs to be shared.

I'm a young guy and in a relationship but I saw escorts before I met her and I have a good relationship and we get on great but I like seeing other girls, my fault not hers but I do intend to try harder.
And us guys don't always tell you Escorts the truth and vice vearsa, at times I tell the escorts I'm not attached and i'm single so you can't go by that either

[hamish]

some right stunning Irish women too, I fancy Kathryn Thomas

[Curvaceous Kate]

I'm a young guy and in a relationship but I saw escorts before I met her and I have a good relationship and we get on great but I like seeing other girls, my fault not hers but I do intend to try harder.
And us guys don't always tell you Escorts the truth and vice vearsa, at times I tell the escorts I'm not attached and i'm single so you can't go by that either

That still doesn't mean that one person can make assumptions on others. My point was that everyone is different and there are many different reasons why people see Escorts. Some are easier to leave behind than others.

[Gobshite]

That still doesn't mean that one person can make assumptions on others. My point was that everyone is different and there are many different reasons why people see Escorts. Some are easier to leave behind than others.

main reasons are chemistry, sex appeal, loneliness, converstaion, touch, skin, breath, and eroticism

[Jiberjabber]

main reasons are chemistry, sex appeal, loneliness, converstaion, touch, skin, breath, and eroticism

Nope. Cheap sex is the main reason. Sorry bud.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Nope. Cheap sex is the main reason. Sorry bud.

Who you calling cheap