I removed fingering from my profile some time ago to, Not because I dont enjoy it, quite the opposite I actually do enjoy it ,
But I got so fed up with guys just raming their fingers inside me at the first touch, like they were trying to pull a calf or something.
This does not get me off or turn me on, it actually hurts!! I like to be, as you said, wet and turned on , and if I feel it will guide the guy in there myself if I feel so inclined as I do many times.
Think they looking for the G-spot or something else like my tits from a different angle, who knows!
I have found since it has not been on my profile, guys now are more aware and enjoy the surprise when I do allow them to do it and I too get alot more pleasure from it.
So I do not advertise it but it is not off the menu entirelly, it just puts me in controll of who does it.
***This is the only service not listed tho, that I may, if feel so inclined, offer.