Alex.xx (18-10-14)
Yes you do have to deal with timewasters and numpty's in any line of work but it's very different for us, we have to deal with all sorts on a whole other level that I can't even begin to put into words and we are offering a very intimate service that means being alone with a stranger. We are our own boss, we don't owe anybody anything. If someone is polite then of course the normal and sensible thing to do is respond in a polite way because that is a good potential client who at the end of the day are my bread and butter but if someone comes across as an idiot, is rude or disrespectful or clearly hasn't a clue and expects things I don't advertise then I've no time for that so I would normally ignore it but very occasionally someone just really pisses you off which makes it difficult not to snap at them cause we're only human.
I know your only new to this hunni but please don't compare an idiot that a shop keeper may have to deal with as the same as what a sex worker may have to do with. The shop keeper doesn't put themselves in a vulnerable position where they are alone and a shop keeper doesn't have to get naked with them and then have sex with them and try to remain a positive professional attitude.
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Last edited by Kendra; 18-10-14 at 16:40.
It is intrusive but it's better to know where you stand with an escort instead of trying to second guess them. So if you send a PM without message tracking, you haven't a clue if she read it or not, then you could possibly run the risk of sending a follow up message which might piss her off and she might block you. At least you have the option to know that she read your message, wasn't interested so didn't reply.
Jiberjabber (18-10-14)
Well that's kind of beside the point as the risk is always greater with the more lucrative reward. There are people who drill down mine shafts that could collapse at any minute and fisher men who risk there lives in stormy seas but they do it for a hell of a lot of money. Same with escorts. There is a very real risk that you could meet a psychopath in your line of work, but your earnings are so high that for most it is worth taking that gamble. So comparing a shop keeper who earns €8.65 and hour to an escort who earns €200 per hour is unfair. Yes they both have to deal with totally different levels of shit from customers, but look at the money involved. Like I said, its a simple trade off with risk vs reward.
2 weeks I called an agent(letting agency) few times and when I saw he does not answer I left him a voicemail.
I never heard from him
Another one told me they will call back....they never did!
And when you finally find somebody more proffesional acting ,when you finally turn up you get to be with 30 more people to see one fecking apartment ....then is all lottery like you can start vets of who's going to get the apt.
One time rang a plumber and gave him the adress to come and check out my washing machine.....he never turn up
My point is you guys( irish) better shut up and move on until you find what you looking for
ana massage (19-10-14), willie wacker (18-10-14)
Your missing the point entirely. If someone is rude to us or come across as an idiot then we are NOT going to take their booking unless we're completely desperate because we are our own bosses. I agree that other jobs have a danger element to them but that's the employees choice to do that job the same as it's our choice whether we want to meet a certain client or not. I am simply not going to invite someone into my home where I sell my body and soul to them for them to treat me badly or be disrespectful towards me so I don't agree with your argument that we should have to put up with idiots and timewasters just because other professions have to deal with them. It's a different situation entirely.
Best to stop comparing our line of work to others. It's very different, just because we get paid a lot of money doesn't mean that we should put ourselves in a bad postition with someone we aren't comfortable with.
I actually think it's becoming a little clearer why your all emails are being ignored
Money isn't everything, if I thought my job was going to be hellish all the time for the sake of money then I wouldn't do the job. My health and happiness and well being is something you can't buy so it's far more important than money. What good is money when your completely miserable?
Last edited by Kendra; 18-10-14 at 19:16.
The pm system works to the extent that it,s a provisional booking, you still have to ring later to confirm the time.
Also only ladies who are active on the forum use the pm system.
In most cases you have to ring them and ring them again. If you don,t and someone confirms a booking then they are going to take their booking.
Remember if you really want the booking then the balls in your court to follow up.
" WE ARE CONNACHT "
circumcised guy (18-10-14), Klittyliker (18-10-14)
I'm not missing the point, I was making the point, as I was the one who created this thread, not you. All you are doing is derailed the thread to push your own agenda and then have sly digs at me like the comment that I highlighted above.
I don't know you personally and I initially sympathised with you as you've told everybody countless times that you've been bullied by everybody and their mother on this site, yet here you are making patronising comments on all of the posts that I've made today in different threads
All you seem to do troll threads, stir shit and start arguments. I mean, what the fuck is your problem?