I think you meant seeing escorts or getting rejected in clubs or bars?
if a girl wants a one night stand man shes going to pick the best looking guy in the place more often than not no matter what way the women looks the guy will her fuck because lets face it if its offered on a plate most guys take it it doesn't happen the other way round thats for sure and the girls here really look after themselves but is it the lazy way out wheres there is no chase i'm kind wondering myself
warmcome (11-10-14)
That is true, women always get to choose the cream of the crop, but the ratios in clubs and bars are totally ridiculous for us guys, it's like 3:1 men to women in most cases, so women obviously have a ridiculous advantage over men when it comes to hooking up.
I know where you're coming from in regards to the chase though, I usually love the buzz of trying the get a women home with me but it's difficult in Ireland for lots of reasons (Catholic guilt, cock blocking friends, girls being too hammered to stand up straight).
Plus in fairness, I seriously doubt that the vast majority of Irish lads are going to pull as stunner on a night out in Dublin anyway unless you get ridiculously lucky with some hot Eastern European or South American chick.
So yes, going with an escort is a cop out, but screw it, I'd rather enjoy the company of a beautiful woman then head out and meet my mates for beers afterwards when I'm relaxed, instead of getting drunk and horny then trying to chat up some stuck up chick who makes you work way too hard and more then likely will leave you standing in the rain while she heads off in a taxi with her mates.
At the end of the day though, it's whatever floats your boat
Red and Horny (10-10-14), tom rambo (10-10-14), warmcome (11-10-14)
If I went into a club they would take straight back to the nursing home .
tom rambo (10-10-14)
I'd not recognise an escort with her clothes on- also girls can look totally different glammed up
if you think youre not going to pull, guess what?
youre not going to pull. women dont just go for the best looking one, they go for the one who they want to shag, this down to you doing your things and subtly or not so subtly planting ideas of how you are going to be in the sack, they dont want it all in their face either, make sure you leave a bit of mystery. how you dance is important too, the movement, a certain amount of ummm.......tenderness lets call it. also its not about following abc ect, its about gaining experience and seeing what results you get, in the early stages this will be alot of being shot down...or maybe not. bottom line, faint heart never won fair maiden
warmcome (11-10-14)
I go the one who gets my jokes
The tall funny ones...
Tommy tieran in coppers the dream
Playitsam (11-10-14)
I am who I am and I am happy with who I am.
Khujo (11-10-14)