SexyEliza (08-08-14)
years ago I became infatuated with a very beautiful escort with whom I had clicked sexually to an amazing degree. We started meeting outside session, sessions continuing. I was smitten. She realised it was getting too serious so she cut me off. I kept calling her. To get peace, I had to hear it from her that it was all just for money. She had not meant it to be any more. Once I heard that from here (which was four months later), I was fine. She had hesitated to say it either because it wasn't true or because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. Doesn't matter why, but cutting me off without saying 'you were just a client' was a bad idea. Keeping me going as a client would also have been a bad idea.
I look back on it as a good experience, only experience of unrequited infatuation I have ever had. Hurts like hell. But interesting.
Your temptation is to keep up the illusion that its not for money, to save his feelings. Make that clear, be brutal. Do it in a public place. He will then know where he is. If he persists after that, you need to be careful. It could get out of hand.
Youre asking a lot to expect him to keep coming as a client and it not get out of hand. Sometimes you gotta let go of the cash for the sake of your peace of mind.
Alex.xx (08-08-14), Cable87 (12-08-14), Curvaceous Kate (13-08-14), mature abby (08-08-14), SexyEliza (08-08-14)
Well .. Looks like another escort problem solved on the boards.
Btw .. I like tall girls.. Especially the gullible type.
Hi Eliza.
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SexyEliza (08-08-14)
If hes getting violent inconversation and he gets jelous maybe tell him to take a break from you for a while for safty
I am in love with an escort but im not expecting anything to come of it , she is aware im in lovewith her , when she asks am I still in love with her and I tell her yes I can see she doesnt want to break my heart by saying nothing will come from it
I am aware nothing will happen and im ok with it , its a drive for me to become better so one day I might be good enough for someone who hopefully is as sweet as her
Alex.xx (08-08-14)
will seeing escorts make that happen though ?? I think well in my opinion makes me not bothered to talk to average girls and woo average girls for months until you get sex when you can get it instantly which is not a good thing at all down the road sometimes finding this site is a curse really
circumcised guy (08-08-14), JAMESCORK (08-08-14)
Eliza, it is one thing to have a guy think he is in love with you and for him to pay to see you but the idea that the same guy who pays you gets jealous of someone else paying to see you would worry me.
This is your business and he would not have met you had he not paid you in the first place. Some people have suggested milking the situation and getting as much cash out of him as possible but personally I don't think in this situation with him that this is a good idea.
You say he is following you and that he has spoken violently to you — this is not good and I'd be afraid that this guy may not know where to stop. The longer he sees you the more infatuated he may become. He has a family but obviously does ot care to much about them.
If I were you I'd try to ease yourself away from him and be careful not to upset him, if that is possible.
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Alex.xx (08-08-14), Cable87 (12-08-14), mature abby (08-08-14), SexyEliza (08-08-14)