Does it Make a Difference?

[Stephanie]

Hmmm... It seems to have lost it's meaning along the way here somewhere. I'm talking about you wearing your 'down time' clothes, or sitting around in a dressing gown, just out the shower after washing your hair, so it's damp, that kind of thing. Wearing your comfy knickers and they want to come straight over.

Okay, so you can change your knickers in that time, but not everything. You are talking about selecting 'nice' casual wear. Things that you would like to be seen in, whereas I'm talking more the hoodie and wet hair look, the pj's in the morning look. What you would wear for indoor comfort, as apposed to something you would wear out to spend time with friends.

One of the reasons why I asked, is due to having shared with a lady must be 3 years ago now when I was still very new to Ireland. My friend had a type of sleeping illness, so she was always in bed and would emerge when a booking came in and nearly every time she would tell them she was not ready, just out of bed and they would ask to see her anyway. I know they seemed to have a good time and left happy, but she very rarely got reviewed. It did seem unfair, but then she was never putting the prep in either.

I wondered if it was likely to be down to the fact that she didn't have stockings on and rarely ever wore make-up etc.

Also, as HJ has said, some guys have booked last minute and then complained, which does seem unfair if they were told that the lady had no time to get changed.

There is also only so much you can take with you when you are touring, so having a nice selection of 'regular' clothes isn't always possible, hence me liking leggings, as they are so light and take up very little room in a suit case. It's more about comfort and packability than having lots of nice clothes with you and in this weather things need washing a lot, so the selection gets even smaller.

Hmm...

1 . Greeting a First Time Client with wet hair , 'down-time' clothes , hoodies , bathrobe , etc. --- NO .

2 . Knickers -- if you actually wearing one ? Or will you have time to put one on between your clients ? Shower fit in ?

3 . "pj's in the morning look." -- I get paid extra for that ... + a tall Latte , please xx

4 . "One of the reasons why I asked, ...." -- quick footwork on ya . I don't have that .

You like Ali : how did it go ? : Dance like a butterfly , sting like a bee ?

[Stephanie]

Like so many things, it's what works for the people involved and communication is the key.

I found with my last girlfriend that the natural 'just out of the shower in pjs' look can be a huge turn-on and for some it could be a major part of a GFE. Springing it without warning on a random client wouldn't be a good idea, but when explained beforehand as part of an impulse booking, it's absolutely fine and can add to the spontaneity and intimacy. It's a yes from me.

So true !!



PJ , yes can be -->> sexy : !! {mind ya , I would have already been up , showered , prettied up ,

then tuck back into bed , with my front door unlocked , so my guest can come in , and snuggle up next to me }

My current negligee is baby-light-blue ...

Not many people get to see it xx

[Yamser]

i once booked a lady and what ever way it worked out she had to open the door naked , no towel just out of the shower , i was smiling from ear to ear i tell ya and she good a good review

another ladies i actually asked for no make up and normal clothes , she has a positive review

if its on impulse i dont expect her to be imaculate , i dont think supergirl could do it lol

the only way it would work out is if the lady is ready to meet someone else and is ready for him but he cancels , and then the new guy comes in looking for a now booking

so no if i was impulsive , and not willing to wait , well then there is no right of the guy to give a negative review

[Kaz]

Doesn't bother me. How much effort would an escort put in to make up?

[Alyssa Jenkins]

I dont understand.
If the man is new he does not know where you are so in the time he takes to travel to you there should be time to slip into something, if he has requested a hoodie or "just out of bed p.j.s and dressing gown" that is different.

Yes I tend to agree I always let enough time to be ready and dressed as requested or as a surprise to be honest.
Some guys like casual some like sexy some like a more classy sensual look. It's always best to just figure this out privately.

As an escort you aren't always going to be sitting waiting to meet someone you may take a walk or whatever when I do these things I don't answer the phone or if I do ask the person to call back.
It's important to leave enough time to get yourself ready and looking good xx

[Stephanie]

i once booked a lady and what ever way it worked out she had to open the door naked , no towel just out of the shower , i was smiling from ear to ear i tell ya and she good a good review

another ladies i actually asked for no make up and normal clothes , she has a positive review

if its on impulse i dont expect her to be imaculate , i dont think supergirl could do it lol

the only way it would work out is if the lady is ready to meet someone else and is ready for him but he cancels , and then the new guy comes in looking for a now booking

so no if i was impulsive , and not willing to wait , well then there is no right of the guy to give a negative review

But it'd be up to the girl to not see him until she was ready and presentable , no ? xx

If your business model is built on Return Clients , you most certainly would want to put your best foot forward :

even if it means having him wait an extra 10-20mins @ short notice : Unless he's made an advance booking with me ,

I have No obligation to meet his timely demand . Will do my best to be quick about getting ready , but it's at my pace x



For me , building relationships and establishing a rapport , a common ground , is so much more valuable than the

'quick right now 250e' >> I'd much rather miss out on a booking or two , than leave a poor impression : and even with

such attitude (or perhaps because of it !) , my appointment book is full . Every day that I choose to 'work' xx .

I want my guys to be coming back again and again ,

because my company is the most pleasing and most accommodating -- on my terms .


Lol : Supergirl and me xxx

[bettercallsaul]

not a factor for me so far anyway as the ladies i have met would look good wearing a bin liner and no makeup,and to be honest as long as i have a good time i doubt if i would notice makeup or not,id be busy looking at the body,I am rather shallow.

[Kaz]

I'd rather have good conversation and fun than focus on what the escort is wearing. I'd recommend something to wear before booking but would not be upset even if it isn't on the escort.

[Stephanie]

not a factor for me so far anyway as the ladies i have met would look good wearing a bin liner and no makeup,and to be honest as long as i have a good time i doubt if i would notice makeup or not,id be busy looking at the body,I am rather shallow.

But you shallow like that ...

xxx





** edit : lol just saw your own use of 'shallow' -- so no offence xx

[Curvaceous Kate]

The way I see it, if you are a professional escort, then you should be prepared at all times.
If you know the client and their comfort zone and you're own, then happy days, whatever works
However PJ's and hoddies, a definite no no for me.
As for reviews, don't do them but if I did, I would just not leave one, end off.
Oh, and not return.

I advertise from 11am to 8pm. I am not working the whole time. Also this morning I was called an hour before I had started work, so I had just got ready to have a shower and wash my hair. If people call you before your start time, or when you are taking a break or having your lunch you should be ready to work? I don't eat in my work clothes, as I don't want to stain them. I tend to lounge around in something comfortable. When it is a bit cooler I'll wear onesie, because I can snuggle up in it.

If I've just seen a client and I'm tired, I may just take my shower and lounge for a while with the towel on (especially when it is warm like this). I need time to get my breath back and then I'll go check on my make up. I'm not always going to be ready for action. I have a life, sometimes I study. I also don't want to be sitting around in work clothes, because I want to keep them fresh.

Why would you agree to see an Escort if she said she couldn't see you because she wasn't ready and you then told her that was okay, you still wanted to see her? Surely what you mean is if an Escort said she was not ready, you would not make the booking in the first place? Otherwise you would be being very harsh to not see her again, when she had explained to you that she was not ready?