A few weeks ago when a lot of posters were saying damn those bringing the prostitution bill on this website, i pointed out that actually the majority wanted to see this bill introduced.
Its the same thing with cheating in marriage. It is frowned upon by the masses. The majority of husbands are not cheating and the majority of wives do not wish to see their husband cheat. That is the public perception of what you are dealing with.
Of course you will get vindication on this website. It is an escort website with men who will try and justify their actions for if they could not they would not visits escorts otherwise.
Lets put the theory to the test and if it turns in your favour i will hold my hand up and say i was wrong. Ask the question on the boards.ie and see the replies. I highly suspect they will disagree with the opinions on this forum. If someone doesnt do it, i will do it for them.
Also if one is wanting advice for whether they should cheat, this is a bad forum to do so because it is skewed in favor of cheating. Its like asking a drug addict whether or not you should take up heroin
"The mass of men live lives of quiet desperation" - Henry David Thoreau.