It sounds dodgy BOTH ways
I was made aware one night in the chat room, that this man "godfather" has a obsession with Gemma. Godfather was expressing his disapproval of the relationship of paws and gemma, in which all of the chatters told him its not his place to say whether or not they are right for each other. When godfather was about to leave the chat room, he went on to say he was going to go see his lovely wife and how great their relationship was... which we thought was a bit hypocritical since he had this extreme obsession with Gemma. Gemma expressed quite clearly she would never see him. At this point, he had become a stalker, by the fact that he would not accept "No" as an answer, and was relentlessly pursueing Gemma. So in godfather's case, he had certainly overstepped his boundaries, and yes, escorts have the final decision on who we see or don't see, and unfortunately, once a client oversteps his boundaries, there is usually no stepping back in time, for the escort makes her decision and she is set on that. Gemma made is firmly understood that there was no way she was going to see this man, based on her history with him and comments on his relentless behavior. So, in this case, He was most certainly WRONG to pursue Gemma and even more wrong to change his phone number in hopes to trick her.
That being said.....
Cameras are on intercoms outside the buildings, when a man buzzes, the escort can often see who is buzzing, and then decide to let or not let him in. I am not quite sure why Gemma would let him in the outside door. I cannot imagine that she has stratigicaly placed many cameras along the hallway to her apartment, and inside her apartments has a monitor screen with camera windows open to see what each camera sees. Like some setup that a hotel would have?? So this doesn't make sense why she would let him in the front door, since the camera is showing the outside of the building's door. If she could see him outside, then she would've known it was him from the start. And if she had known it was him, and decided to play this "little game to teach him a lesson", how did she know that he would turn on his heels and not see her friend? Once he was in the door, he could have easily accepted the appointment, and came inside to either 1. look around for Gemma, which would have led to a very bad confrontation between them, or 2. He would possibly have switched his obsession to Gemma's friend. And why would Gemma want to do that to her friend?
Basically....
Who knows what the truth is here. And I really dont care either since its none of my businessBut certainly the story is not 100% truthful here, and I dont blame Gemma for what she is forced to say here, and she should never have been put in this uncomfortable situation in the first place. This man should have sadly but respectfully accepted her decision, whether he thinks it is fair or not fair... fact is, ultimate decision is the escorts on who she will or wont see, and what behaviour she will or wont put up with.
Please.... Take this extreme experience now Godfather, and see that it is not healthy or sane of you to pursue her like this. Even if she is lying here, see that for what it is. You must move on. You have mentioned your loving adoring wife, why dont you put your obsessions towards her? She wants it Im sure. She will reward you greatly if you become as obsessed with her as you have been with Gemma.
Best of luck everyone involved. And I do hope you all can move past this without too much frustration.
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Originally Posted by bigpaws
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As I am not high volume.
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