I'm sorry to say OWO is absolutely essential for me. The absence of the service is a deal breaker.
I am very concious about safety and have sought to educate myself on the topic. You can contract everything from OWO that you can from unprotected intercourse but the risk is far smaller. In particular the risk of the serious transmissiable diseases (HIV and Hep B) is far smaller albeit still present.
I've had my Hep B vaccinations and even had my HPV vaccine. I get a full STD check every three to four months. This of course isn't a preventative measure but it allows for detection of assymptomatic infections and therefore early treatment if required.
If I could go without OWO I would. But it's a complete waste of time for me to go without it . Each of us has to make our own decisions on risk - benefits.
I respect any lady's choice not to provide it. But equally I have the right to choose to only see those who do provide it.
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"