Originally Posted by
Quarterpoundher
This is also not an attack, and also genuine observation. I welcome discussion based on calm thought, reason and fair play, all my posts are thus, this is no different.
If you feel I have avoided the “Tough” questions, I fail to see where. I have yet to asked a “Tough” question here by anyone here. What I consider tough is obviously quite different then what you call tough.
I call a tough question…
Would you at 13, through to 18 break down yet another door in the house to stop someone committing suicide yet again with a razor blade while out of their mind
Would you have your sister removed from her home and live with relations, to protect her and not cause her lasting damage.
Would you again beg your family “Doctor” to stop prescribing massive amounts of tranquilizers to a parent and help you only to be ignored yet again
Do you quit school and get a job to keep the roof over your head
Do you decide to have them committed to an institution on your 18th birthday for their and your sisters safety, while they scream at you not to while being taken away.
My eyes roll to heaven at the thought of what pass’s for some as a “tough” question here. I challenge anyone to ask a question of me that causes me more difficulty then those that I agonized over. It’s not going to happen.
I also am tiring at the notion that just because I am not a client, that I somehow can not see things from both sides perspectives, you do not have to stand in a thunderstorm to know you’ll get wet. I have voiced my opinions fairly and without reference to my gender in everything here, you said yourself my point of view was bordering on essential. Although I do not see that that is so, I find it troubling that as soon as I disagree with you on something I all of a sudden am persona non grata. You called my impartiality into question also, how would I be impartial if I just agreed with everything you said, again that is another example of a Man wanting his cake an eating it, value my input when it tallies with you, but belittle me when it does not, its not happening Paws. I’ve been fending for myself from an age when most were wondering when their balls would drop, I’ll speak my mind regardless of your opinion of me. I have from a young age been able to instantly see things from a Woman’s point of view, it come naturally to me, even an Escort quoted something I attributed to them as being true to all Escorts, so I must be able to, to some degree, but would be waiting a long time for you to concede that or concede anything for that matter. That is why I feel it pointless debating with you because as soon as it looks remotely like having to concede a point, you just ignore it and unilaterally decide that that topic is at an end. You even tell people to stay on topic, who are you or anyone to decide what someone wants to add, this is a forum and not the leaving cert, where everything has to be compartmentalized.
It is obvious to me that you are trying to backtrack on your oft mentioned positive view of me when my input differs from, and does not fit in with your grand design for how things should be, I believe your heart is in the right place, but you are trampling on that which you say you wish to protect paradoxically, in your belligerence and dogma to some issues.
The Tree that bends with the wind bears fruit the longest.
My rose tinted glasses were smashed long ago, but I refuse to let myself get cynical, EVER, about anything, the things that trouble Clients, yes they are valid, they should not be so discommoded, but you only have to step back and see they are trifling concerns in the greater scheme of things, at the end of the day all those problems can be solved by doing your homework or at worst all anyone has to do is stop engaging in this realm,
Heres a “tough” question
You can “stop” if you wanted to, can you? (To all)
Try coming home after a day using a chainsaw that’s to big for you and wondering what you’ll have to deal with on opening the door, will they even be alive. Ihe main reason my hands give me problems today is that during those years I hit every concrete wall in the house with full force many times over in my frustration at not being able to get people to see sense, see reason, concede a fair point, to admit making a mistake, traits that you regrettably display here. I hit those walls because it hurt like hell, and if it hurt bad enough then I knew I would not be able to hit those that had it coming, my only regret is that I did not hit them, but I a not made that way, but if I could someone would be alive today. I’m glad my hands hurt as it reminds me of what I escaped from and what I failed to do, my only ambition it to not have a cross word spoken in my presence ever again, to which I have been successful for over a decade thus far. I have no wish to come on here and engage with aggressively minded belligerent and intransigent people, and be reminded of such failings in others. I left all that behind me long ago.
I assure you, looking through rose tinted glasses was not a luxury I ever had. Do not be so condescending in your comments to me.
As to the issue of being sexist in relation to how a Woman should be spoken to, We should all be respectful to one another regardless of gender, but I personally view a Man using such terms to a Woman as more offensive then from one Woman to another, and if a Woman unilaterally uses bad language to a Man, that is regrettable but there is no need for him to reciprocate in kind. I work in the real world with rough men, they curse all day, everyday, and I have been feefed and blinded from sunup till sundown, does not mean I like it, I don’t, but one man said to another means very little to me.
And AGAIN I find it incredulous to beyond the point of farce that people will defend to the death the right of equality to tell each other to F**K OFF but seek to deny a Woman the right to charge what she chooses for her own body, and insist on slapping a pathetic “greed” tag on them.
AGAIN, AGAIN AGAIN, YE CANNOT HAVE IT BOTH WAYS!!!...
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