Originally Posted by
Quarterpoundher
I don’t think its naive of a partner to expect their other half to remain faithful, without fidelity you have nothing unless you are in an open relationship with one or both free to do as they please. It does not matter if the person you are doing the cheating with is being paid or is a more conventional scenario, it’s still cheating. I have stayed away from this topic as I have no wish to offend. I am in no doubt that there are many Men or Women here who are technically married but possibly only in name or a whole host of other reasons, for instance its possible that a Male or Female Client is Bisexual and has a strong relationship with someone, but by virtue of their sexuality have to be with someone else to fill that other need, that would be valid, but still cheating if doing so without their knowledge, but in the context so described by the original poster of loving their partner to bits, then I really do not understand how they can look them in the eye, I really can’t, I mean it as no disrespect, its just how I feel on the subject.
Yes Men are weak and given to impulse over thought some times, and we are only really cavemen in armani suites in evolutionary terms, and like to think we are evolved, but are ruled by eons of time spent following the biological imperative, but we can’t continue to use the old chestnut of “Its not my fault love, I’m a hunter gatherer” that’s starting to wear pretty thin, as for one where is the “hunt” involved in ringing an Escort, It’s a fore gone conclusion that you are guaranteed a result (issues of hygiene and Manners aside) that like equating a caveman standing on top of a wholly mammoth, proud as punch at having caught it, when in fact he just nicked round to the local stone age zoo and bought one, Where’s the hunt?.
Sorry but anyone in an otherwise happy relationship, then equating them to steak and an Escort to lobster (regardless of how hot they are) then you need to face up to the fact that 1, you are doing something terrible behind their back, and using the excuse that you are evolutionary predispositioned to having the horn is just not on, and 2, your relationship is not all that solid, it might have been once, but as soon as you crossed that doorway into someone else apartment then, your perceived “happy” other life is a sham, a shell of normality and she or he deserves better then to be treated like that, even if they never know they are being treated like that.
I again am applying the above to people who have partners who as far as they know are in a perfectly happy relationship with no issues to their knowledge.