should i tell her ?

[Yamser]

ok so i kinda fell in love with an escort and well im wondering should i tell her , now dont worrie i know i sound physco but i take rejection very well (have done for years) , she is supposed to be finishing up the escort buisness the end of this week (if she does get this job offer she is after) and i do think there is this connection , so should i tell her how i feel or should i do as they saying goes if you love somebody let them go ?

[benin]

ok so i kinda fell in love with an escort and well im wondering should i tell her , now dont worrie i know i sound physco but i take rejection very well (have done for years) , she is supposed to be finishing up the escort buisness the end of this week (if she does get this job offer she is after) and i do think there is this connection , so should i tell her how i feel or should i do as they saying goes if you love somebody let them go ?

Difficult dilemma my friend, ic you don't ask you will have regrets all your life, but if you have a friendship you may end that by asking, slso factor in that to her you may just be a punter she likes to chat to.

I wish you good luck whatever choice you make.

[Yamser]

Difficult dilemma my friend, ic you don't ask you will have regrets all your life, but if you have a friendship you may end that by asking, slso factor in that to her you may just be a punter she likes to chat to.

I wish you good luck whatever choice you make.

thanks , im planning on seeing her on friday and it will be the one thought going tru my mind all week. i just wish i could find out if her feelings are mutual to avoid awkwardness , although i do plan on letting her know nearer the end of the session as to avoid totally freaking her out lol

[Jaygoodtimes]

thanks , im planning on seeing her on friday and it will be the one thought going tru my mind all week. i just wish i could find out if her feelings are mutual to avoid awkwardness , although i do plan on letting her know nearer the end of the session as to avoid totally freaking her out lol

lol I like how your going to have sex with her first then tell her, that is quality.. But do tell her, or you,ll be thinking back on what could have been !

[adog]

Yes u shud, 4 years ago now met an amazing lady from this site, met her four or five times just as business but even then there was a real spark between us we just seemed to click similare age she 18 i was 22 at the time. Even after meeting she would always drive me home in her car.
Then one day she texted me saying she had a flat tyre so i offered to change it came out changed it wound up in bed together! from that a few days later we were texting and i mentioned i was going out sat nyt she asked were mentioned bar she said her and her friends wud be out too meet up so we did had a fantastic time together. then from there we seen each other regularly for around 18 months she continued to work and TBH it didnt bother me. Things just fizzled out after time but i wouldnt say how i met her or her job had anything to do with that

[funlover12]

you have what we call in the business 'clicked' dont read any more into it

If I had a wife for every time this has happened to me Id be building a harem at this stage to house us all

but there is a way you can know and thats by asking can you still see her after she quits the business

[petebriquette]

thanks , im planning on seeing her on friday and it will be the one thought going tru my mind all week. i just wish i could find out if her feelings are mutual to avoid awkwardness , although i do plan on letting her know nearer the end of the session as to avoid totally freaking her out lol

I wonder are you approaching this in the right way, you say you will tell her towards the end of the meeting, So basically you are hedgeing your bets, ie. if she feels the same way as you, then you have hit the jackpot but if she doesn't, well as least you have got a shag in.
Perhaps it would be better from her point of view if at the start of the appointment you told her that on this occasion instead of the usual client/escort business of having sex that you would like to treat her to a coffee and have a chat.
If she knocks you back on this offer then she probably does not have the same feelings as you. If she agrees to the coffee, wouldn't it be a better place to confide your feelings to her than at her place of work, where let's face it she has been intimate with a lot of guys!
I think if you are to succeed then this is the better option for you.
PS good luck !

[JAMESCORK]

I wonder are you approaching this in the right way, you say you will tell her towards the end of the meeting, So basically you are hedgeing your bets, ie. if she feels the same way as you, then you have hit the jackpot but if she doesn't, well as least you have got a shag in.
Perhaps it would be better from her point of view if at the start of the appointment you told her that on this occasion instead of the usual client/escort business of having sex that you would like to treat her to a coffee and have a chat.
If she knocks you back on this offer then she probably does not have the same feelings as you. If she agrees to the coffee, wouldn't it be a better place to confide your feelings to her than at her place of work, where let's face it she has been intimate with a lot of guys!
I think if you are to succeed then this is the better option for you.
PS good luck !

This makes a lot of sense. Although it is not unheard of for clients and escorts to have lovely relationships it is probably more common for the client to have the relationship and for the escort to be simply GOOD at her job. if you have not had off the clock contact up to now one has to wonder why if a mutual relationship is brewing.

I would be slow to come straight out and say "I love you" without certain proof of mutual feelings. Suggest off the clock meetings, and if these work out, now is the time to open up your heart. Otherwise I fear there is only one person that will have a broken heart here.... And it ain't the escort.

I sincerely hope things go as you would like.

[NoBrain2]

This makes a lot of sense. Although it is not unheard of for clients and escorts to have lovely relationships it is probably more common for the client to have the relationship and for the escort to be simply GOOD at her job. if you have not had off the clock contact up to now one has to wonder why if a mutual relationship is brewing.

I would be slow to come straight out and say "I love you" without certain proof of mutual feelings. Suggest off the clock meetings, and if these work out, now is the time to open up your heart. Otherwise I fear there is only one person that will have a broken heart here.... And it ain't the escort.

I sincerely hope things go as you would like.

Is that how you and Nikole got together?

[Nyna]

It wont work out.....