Apologies in advance, but reading 17 pages of posts is just impossible!! So I may well be repeating what's already been said.
The term independant escort (or more affectionately - indie) has been bandied about a lot. I don't really care for the term.
All I care about is that the lady concerned is doing this of her own free will. What she does with her money and how she got here is none of my business on the premise that she isn't forced or controlled in any way.
No two escorts have equal footing. If you're from Ireland or across the pond and English is your first language, it's bound to be easier to work entirely independantly. But then again the question of sharing apartments come up, and by law - that will implicate at least one of the two sharing escorts as a brothel keeper!! Which we all know is a load of tosh, but such is the stupid law.
So the term independant to me is defined as whether or not the lady can walk away from this if she so chooses.
I'm not talking about the need for employment - as that governs us all. Many of us would like to leave our jobs but there aren't suitable alternatives. But at the end of the day, if we really wanted to leave, we could. And that is what defines independance to me.
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"