What is your take on it?

[Sexy Fernanda]

What if you had not met them yet Katalya? Like leaving lots of messages on your wall saying they wanted to meet you and then asking you about other ladies? It is hard to recommend someone, when you don't know who you are recommending them too, as you don't really know him.

Then is another story Kate,coz beside of not knowing what they may like or what they are into,you don't know which type of client you are sending towards to another lady,I only would give a polite excuse and change the subject of the talk...

[Jericho]

Hi Kate,
Personally, I would never ask one lady about another.
Just would not feel comfortable in doing that.

[thehighwayman]

Have never asked an escort to recommend someone . No escort has ever recommended anyone. My own judgement has rarely let me down.

[Rachel Divine]

Yeah , of course , always had a vocation for psychiatry and I love the mix with the escorting stuff ....

I charge double though when comes to give advice and listen about other escorts / women ...

[mellors]

What if you had not met them yet Katalya? Like leaving lots of messages on your wall saying they wanted to meet you and then asking you about other ladies? It is hard to recommend someone, when you don't know who you are recommending them too, as you don't really know him.

Why would you recommend someone you havent met ? I've never asked, a bit rude i would of thought if your in the company of an escort, except once when i was thinking about a duo, never been recommended to another escort (as far as i know)
I do sometimes ask advice,like, does my bum look big in these jeans etc

[Curvaceous Kate]

Why would you recommend someone you havent met ? I've never asked, a bit rude i would of thought if your in the company of an escort, except once when i was thinking about a duo, never been recommended to another escort (as far as i know)
I do sometimes ask advice,like, does my bum look big in these jeans etc

That is the confusing thing Mellor, I recently had a client I had never met, ask me about a lady I had never met. They had both posted on my wall and it seems they like each other and he thought I could help him by giving her a reference, but although I enjoy talking to her, I don't know her, as I don't know him and I'm not enamoured by the fact that he's asking me about other women before we have had a booking with the amount of time he has spent telling me how much he wants to book me.

I told him to go talk to her and leave me alone. I was in a grouchy mood before that lol.

[UncleBob]

Guys...

Do you ever seek advice from ladies that you are intending to meet for bookings about other ladies and how you should behave during other bookings?

Do you feel this is something you can do, because the ladies here are open minded, or because they don't have attachments etc?

If you don't talk about other encounters or intentions, why don't you?

When I'm with someone, they naturally have my full attention and I don't talk about others women or encounters - unless it comes up in chit-chat at the start over a drink or in pillow-talk afterwards. It can be nice to be completely open and talk stuff through with a friendly stranger who can give you her insight and experiences.

[Banjaxed]

It was something I tended to do, and something which happens all the time not just in relation to escorts where both know other people as well. To me it's just human nature to find shared grounds.

The scenario you describe however is one which can be fraught with misunderstandings and misconceptions, and I guess it really is impossible to tell how two people who have no experience of one another or who you've never met will get along.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I have noticed that some of the men are answering as though they are with the women, whereas others are talking as thought they are communicating via pm/phone/text etc. They are two very different scenarios and again seperate two types of people. One that only talks to Escorts when they are booking and when they are with them, showing 100% discretion and respect and another where they are more inclined to converse as friends or in some cases coax the Escort into giving them free pictures, phone sex etc.

Perhaps this is where the grey area is? I know many Escorts who believe that it is not possible to be friends with clients. They are either your client and book you or you talk and are friends, but not both. I think there is another stage, where a client shows interest in booking at an early stage (especially with touring Escorts) and then while waiting for you to tour their area they keep in contact and sometimes this can be fine and be pleasant, keeping pleasant and neutral and some times it can start to get demanding and they ask for pictures or start talking about their next conquest etc.

There is a clear difference between recommending a lady to a client you know well and is looking for somone when you are not in the Country etc, than recommending a lady to a potential client. For one it doesn't fill you will confidence that they will book you at all, after all if they are that easily swayed and interested in others, then what is to say they won't go there instead of you? Also is it a good idea to recommend someone you know who is reliable and good at their work, to someone you have not yet met yourself? You can't vouch for them? It's like giving advice on bookings. You can't really advice anyone how to behave at a booking, beyond be clean, respectful and be yourself. There sometimes seems to be a general thought that just because you are an Escort, you know all the answers and what 'normally' happens in a booking. I only know what is normal for me and what works for me, I can't tell anyone what to expect with someone else.

Now I'm rambling. I've had a really weird day. I was very tired last night when a few people asked things of me that I was not really happy about and probably over reacted or was not particularly tolerant, but... that doesn't make me uptight, it makes me human!

[nautural bbw]

i like your approach morpheus