Naivety about STIs

[EnglishAlex]

Dear Alex ,
I am not shure where you take the idea from that offering OWO/CIM puts me and my guests at a extremly higher risk then offering French Kissing !
When you catch an STI , god forbid it ever happens to any off us , it doesnt matter how you got it !
If you are convinced all you are doing is fine with what you believe is right I am happy for you !
But please dont batter ladies and guys who believe all THEY are doing is fine with what THEY believe is right for them !
You can only do so much as pointing out facts , you cant force anybody to change their ways !

My concern here is that the risks of catching an STI via French kissing are played down as riskfree and many here seem to believe its only OWO/CIM and uncovered sex that puts them at risk ! ITS NOT !
Lets be so fair and educated to admit that French Kising is not safe from STIs !

I offer a service to a different group of guests then you , guests who would see an Escort that offer OWO/CIM would properbly not book with you and versa vi ! Same counts for Escorts who kiss or dont .

But saying guys who see escorts who do offer OWO/CIM have no selfrespect and only think with their small head is , blantly said , an insult !
Comments about "silly "escorts and that one can be GREAT escort without offering risky service , will reflect back on you since you have been confronted with facts that YOU offer a risky service as well ...

I dont mind having a discussion and I dont mind changing my opinion if I think its necessary, but I do mind being insulted for what I do just because is not conform with what other people believe !

I take the risk and kiss somebody. So do you. I take the risk and receive oral. So do you. You take the risk to do owo. I do not. You take the risk doing cim. I do not. Do you see where I'm going with this yet? You are taking more risks. That is a fact. Not an insult in any way.

You're right, it doesn't matter one tiny bit where you got the sti from. But don't skirt around the fact that it is more likely to happen to you and with you, as you are taking more risks than I am. I can understand your reluctance to want to admit it's risker for a client to visit you than an escort who is more responsible.

Certain clients will want to see a lady who offers a bigger list of favourites than others. Maybe so but this is not always the case. I know for (another) fact that many clients I've spent time with have also been to see escorts offering a lot more services than I do.

You've also said that you offer owo+cim to be competitive. I do not compete in that way so I'd rather not suffer the consequences of your actions. As I've said previously, I don't do the things you do. I choose not to as I'd rather not be at greater risk of contracting something nasty.

Look at it from my point of view, clear the Pound Signs from your eyes for just a second and put all thoughts of bettering the competition aside for one moment, please. You put me at a higher risk of contracting an sti or std. By offering all kinds of extremely risky services to clients who then visit other escorts, you're also putting them at risk too. Don't expect me to be happy about it or to avoid stating what is obvious (to me at least) because you might not like the truth.

Silly Escorts? There's no need to make things up. I said Silly Comments from Escorts.

I think the clients who seek out (it happens lots) ladies for owo/cim are being selfish. I understand why they do it, much like I understand you offer the services. But again, don't expect me to like and accept what I see and what is being proven to be very risky behaviour. While there is a demand there will always be supply, much like with drugs. Knowing what we do about std's, everyone should be more careful instead of behaving like they have nothing to lose.

You get tested regularly and I respect that but prevention is better than cure - taking us back to the reason this topic was dragged up again in the first place: Antibiotics are no longer working.

I take small risks. Receiving oral and kissing. I have a full sexual health check up regularly and have also weighed up the risks, but seem to have come to a different conclusion than you. You find owo and cim acceptable while I do not. Don't bury your head in the sand Lilian, banging on about kissing was not really a great defence when you're letting all and sundry cum in your mouth.

I'm glad you don't have sleepless nights about what people think, neither do I. We are all entitled to an opinion. You've stated yours, I've stated mine and good old db is back to stir some shit as usual. Shall we leave it at that?

Disco Biscuit back from the Dead! How nice. The Devil most certainly looks after his own in your case

[Disco Biscuit]

Disco Biscuit back from the Dead! How nice. The Devil most certainly looks after his own in your case

Not a clue what that means, more of your rubbish and bullshit, par for the course really

[EnglishAlex]

Not a clue what that means, more of your rubbish and bullshit, par for the course really

Your Location: Back from the dead........

Any need for nasty comments? We don't even know each other (apparently). Grow Up

[Disco Biscuit]

Your Location: Back from the dead........

Any need for nasty comments? We don't even know each other (apparently). Grow Up

We don't, I thought I did but how wrong I was.

Not nasty, not at all, just the truth, a totally alien concept to you

[Dub Lad]

I feel bad writing such a short sentence but, french kissing is an awful lot safer than owo and cim and by not doing those two acts of course you're reducing your risk to catching an infection, it makes common sense.

Catching a STI from French kissing is rare and the most likely infection you will get is oral herpes (coldsores) which is easily treated, untreated of course and then performing oral sex will start a huge kerffufle.