Naivety about STIs

[UKHeather]

To Alex ( quote is to long ) Note : The list I put up is what you can catch from French Kissing !
Yes you are right it is about money , the whole job is about money , so may I put the ball back into your basket and ask why an intelligent and well informed women would offer a risky service , in your case French Kissing ?
Because you love strangers sticking their tong down your throut ? I doubt that !
Its about being competative , hence money !
I never challenge the choices others make , because its not my choice to make in the first place , wether I dont like what they do or would never do it myself !
All the services carry a risk ( broken or sliped off condom , beeing batted over the head by a nasty guy, meeting an escort whos only intention is to rob , literally , the guest of his money and even worse possibilities ), there is no way to stay 100% safe in this job !
So what we decide to do IS a personal choice and that counts for our guests as well , just because I offer certain services I dont force my guests to participate ( unless asked for ) !
As long as the ladies are ok with what they offer who are we to judge them ?
I met girls in this job who vomited after every guest or after practicing a specific service !
Thats really terrible if one does force herself to do things she is mentally not coping with , just for money !
The whole world is full of risky things we decide to do anyway , knowingly !
Smoking , drinking , getting into fights , hell , in some areas of the world taking a stroll can be deadly !
I know its not really the same as STD/STI and I know where you coming from , but it all comes down to make an educated personal choice !
I am not defending my choice cause I dont have to do that for anybody , I am just pointing out the obviouse . not much in this job is riskfree and I decided for me what to do and what not !

We are talking about contractable diseases here, some of which are becoming harder to treat. Escorts are having sex with more men than the average woman, therefore, the way I see it, we have a responsibilty to ourselves, the clients and other escorts. If you were a nurse would you treat patients without the necessary precautions such as gloves because that was your choice? That's not an educated choice, it's selfish and irresponsible.

[ThisUserNameIsTaken]

I keep reading this thread title on the main page out of the corner of my eyes as "NATIVITY about STIs". What a Christmas pagent that would be!

[CoolJay]

I wasnt suggesting anything btw lillan.in fact i would like to put it on record as a side not that without question you where the most friendly easy going ladie i have met if anything you talk to much but you know how to put someone at ease and il look forward to meeting you again.

The eppisode i was saying if you look at my thread history i had a huge freak out about HIV.i had four tests done just to reasure me by pvt clinics and doctors and get the all clear.looking back on it now i never had anything to worrie about there never was blood past which i knew and found out really that HIV is extreamly low chance threw norm intercours an oral and with condom on well makes it more or less impossible.

Its a good thing we talk about STI's it really is important.

[Lilian]

We are talking about contractable diseases here, some of which are becoming harder to treat. Escorts are having sex with more men than the average woman, therefore, the way I see it, we have a responsibilty to ourselves, the clients and other escorts. If you were a nurse would you treat patients without the necessary precautions such as gloves because that was your choice? That's not an educated choice, it's selfish and irresponsible.

Thats what I am talking about as well , if I dont make a huge mistake that Syphilis and Gonorrhea are include in this category ?!
A nurse has regulations in the job she is doing , she HAS to wear gloves .
By offering OWO and CIM I am not breaking any regulations in the job " ESCORT" !
I educate myself , way the risks and decide what I want to offer ! Thats an educated choice !
If you see that as irresponsible , ok ! If you see that as selfish , I agree with you !
I run a business not a charity , I compete with other ladies and if I think that offering a certain service ( which I considered riskworthy ) gives me a headstart , I will do so !
Unless somebody pays my bills or shows me the regulations by law , I will not let other people make dicissions regarding MY business !
I though will take advice , I am not stupid !

[Lilian]

I wasnt suggesting anything btw lillan.in fact i would like to put it on record as a side not that without question you where the most friendly easy going ladie i have met if anything you talk to much but you know how to put someone at ease and il look forward to meeting you again.

The eppisode i was saying if you look at my thread history i had a huge freak out about HIV.i had four tests done just to reasure me by pvt clinics and doctors and get the all clear.looking back on it now i never had anything to worrie about there never was blood past which i knew and found out really that HIV is extreamly low chance threw norm intercours an oral and with condom on well makes it more or less impossible.

Its a good thing we talk about STI's it really is important.

Yeah I know , what can I do I like talking and I do it a lot ! I usually make up for that ....

Oh that does sound scary , how long where you in the limbo before you got the results ?

Its VERY good to talk about it and necessary !
I just dont like when fingers are pointed and when people are judged for what they do !

[UKHeather]

Thats what I am talking about as well , if I dont make a huge mistake that Syphilis and Gonorrhea are include in this category ?!
A nurse has regulations in the job she is doing , she HAS to wear gloves .
By offering OWO and CIM I am not breaking any regulations in the job " ESCORT" !
I educate myself , way the risks and decide what I want to offer ! Thats an educated choice !
If you see that as irresponsible , ok ! If you see that as selfish , I agree with you !
I run a business not a charity , I compete with other ladies and if I think that offering a certain service ( which I considered riskworthy ) gives me a headstart , I will do so !
Unless somebody pays my bills or shows me the regulations by law , I will not let other people make dicissions regarding MY business !
I though will take advice , I am not stupid !

I appreciate your reply and respect your choices. I guess I haven't reached that stage where I feel I have to be competitive and will do anything for money, including putting my own health and that of others at unnecessary risk.

[Lilian]

I appreciate your reply and respect your choices. I guess I haven't reached that stage where I feel I have to be competitive and will do anything for money, including putting my own health and that of others at unnecessary risk.

Thanks for the flowers ! I dont do everything for money , thanks a lot ! Otherwise I would be very rich and very dead very soon !
I hope you never reach the state where you feel you have to compete as you put it ...
May you live long and prosper !

[CoolJay]

Yeah I know , what can I do I like talking and I do it a lot ! I usually make up for that ....

Oh that does sound scary , how long where you in the limbo before you got the results ?

Its VERY good to talk about it and necessary !
I just dont like when fingers are pointed and when people are judged for what they do !

To long detail to get into lets just say it took me four tests and about 7months to get over it.

[Lilian]

EEEEEKKKK Did you sue her for mental scaring ?

[CoolJay]

EEEEEKKKK Did you sue her for mental scaring ?

lol.its the risks you take when you live a life like this.i take responsibilty for myself.i got it in my own head i had it threw escorting,of course turns out i never did and after really learning about it turns out that HIV isnt reallt a concern if you have protectd sex/kissing/reverseoral/owo.