discriminating escorts

[Skeletor]

I have a friend with a disability by all means a nice guy keeps himself well, he has had trouble with escorts turning him down all the time as soon as he mentions 'disability' all the time with non national escorts, its fine its up to a girl if she dont want to take a booking but this is a widespread problem I know because I rang on his behalf several times, its certainly as I saw not a language barrier thing as it was the same thing u were understood until u mentioned 'disability' then the escorts say 'they dont understand', an escort can see who she wants if she wants but the escorting scene in general is certainly discriminatory towards disabled people

[saoirsemac]

the thing with seeing clients with a disabilty is most require outcall to there homes, and there is nasty people out there who have used this to get an escort to call out,

i never have an issue with a client with a disabilty, i do ask what is the level and maybe what it is,
as i like to look it before the booking, so i know whats ahead of me,

[sashaeve]

I think u are wrong to said that some girls do not have a problem with disability but in many cases planning the appointment with location (apartment, stair, hallway, discretion) can be little headache to deal with.

I dublin long ago i saw 1 disable client, i only saw he was in heel chair when i saw him from my window, i was staying at the time in flat with stairs to 2nd floor in very small building i had to get changed put my jean take off my make up and go down stair to fold his chair and bring it up into to the flat and when he finish same going back again with the chair, i think it is more the inconvenience more than we dont like.
Some of escorts as myself are very paranoid about discretion if the flat is not adequate and will attract look i will simply avoid the client. Not because i dont want them but simply for the inconvenience in many time he may cause, if many buidling or walking way were more disable friendly it will make the appointment more easier for girl to take them

[Anna23]

I have a friend with a disability by all means a nice guy keeps himself well, he has had trouble with escorts turning him down all the time as soon as he mentions 'disability' all the time with non national escorts, its fine its up to a girl if she dont want to take a booking but this is a widespread problem I know because I rang on his behalf several times, its certainly as I saw not a language barrier thing as it was the same thing u were understood until u mentioned 'disability' then the escorts say 'they dont understand', an escort can see who she wants if she wants but the escorting scene in general is certainly discriminatory towards disabled people

I'm glad I'm not alone then. I don't see people in wheelchair. Most of them had difficulty to accept it, which adds to the reasons I don't see them.
I'm glad there are escorts who can stomach it just as I once was able to. It's just not worth it to be making this job even more complicated for yourself.
Luckily we have the little tickbox in the escorts profiles, that makes it obvious wether the escort does or doesnt see disabled clients, so I would guess this thread isn't neccesary?

[Banjaxed]

Sounds like your friend has a case to bring to the Equality Tribunal, under the Equal Status Act. Form ES.1 should do the trick...oh, wait. Nevermind.

[JohnRambo]

Most of them had difficulty to accept it, which adds to the reasons I don't see them.
I'm glad there are escorts who can stomach it just as I once was able to.

All I can say to you Anna is you never know what’s around the corner, and I hope for your sake nothing ever happens to you or someone in your family that would result in you or them becoming disabled in some way as you sound as if you really couldn’t “stomach” them.

[Sexy_Jessica]

I hope for your sake nothing ever happens to you or someone in your family that would result in you or them becoming disabled in some way as you sound as if you really couldn’t “stomach” them.

totally agree, to be disabled can happen to anyone, had some small carcrashes in the pastens, just stupid aquaplaning, though i will die or end on the wheelchair, My car just turned on the road a few times, but nothing happened to me (was my fault as i love to drive fast), before i buyed my apartment, i looked also on such things like if this has an disabled acces for the wheelchair persons, if lift is big enough to entry with wheelchair etc. It sounds maybe paranoid from me, but you never know what can happend to you.
Respect yourself and eachother, every girl has the right to decided to see who she wants, but dont´s insult them or hate them we all are human.

[Curvaceous Kate]

totally agree, to be disabled can happen to anyone, had some small carcrashes in the pastens, just stupid aquaplaning, though i will die or end on the wheelchair, My car just turned on the road a few times, but nothing happened to me (was my fault as i love to drive fast), before i buyed my apartment, i looked also on such things like if this has an disabled acces for the wheelchair persons, if lift is big enough to entry with wheelchair etc. It sounds maybe paranoid from me, but you never know what can happend to you.
Respect yourself and eachother, every girl has the right to decided to see who she wants,but dont´s insult them or hate them we all are human.

I totally agree with this Jessica and you wrote an excellent post.

[Anna23]

Apologies if I added to the generalision the OP made. It was nt meant as an insult. I just tried to show that even escorts can take only so much.
I have nothing extra against people in wheelchair compared to what I feel against all other people. I just don't want to have sex with them unless I find the particular person attractive. So I have made a decision not to escort people in wheelchair.
For the vast majority of clients it is of paramount importance, that I am ok doing what I do with them. Unfortunately the reactions of this minority has proven the opposite. They would rather if I forced meself into servicing them regardless of my feelings, because that is the right thing to do.
Well, dear ones, this is sex we are selling here and I dont want to end up disgruntled like some DCG, so I wont be forcing myself into having it with anyone, even if I'm getting paid for it.
I'm not the one being judgemental here. Maybe you'd see more honesty around here if you could try to be at least bit more openminded.

[Skeletor]

I'm glad I'm not alone then. I don't see people in wheelchair. Most of them had difficulty to accept it, which adds to the reasons I don't see them.
I'm glad there are escorts who can stomach it just as I once was able to. It's just not worth it to be making this job even more complicated for yourself.
Luckily we have the little tickbox in the escorts profiles, that makes it obvious wether the escort does or doesnt see disabled clients, so I would guess this thread isn't neccesary?

this is my first time logging in since I started this thread lastnite I am shocked at your attitude but moreso the ignorance of your post, how u wish to label people with disabilities paint them all with the same brush, people can acquire a disability through accident or ill health too so I hope that never happens u because not only will u not be able to accept it but society will not be able to accept u..disabled people have tried throughout the years to gain a more equal and inclusive society for themselves and have come such a long way with independent living in the community and much improved access Thanks be to God your attitude is very much in the minority
I've no doubt John Rambo can confirm all that I have stated here with respect to disabled people now living in an inclusive society