What happens with a pre-op TS??

**wakka** · 09-03-12, 16:30

Originally Posted by ciara

I reckon the best thing to do is pm or call a couple do ts girls that you have your eye on explain exactly what your looking for during the date, maybe also say what you do NOT want to happen also, and they can say if it's ok or not

U forgot to add that you would like to join them too Ciara!! lol

**Lincoln** · 09-03-12, 19:52

Originally Posted by jggy2003

It seems everyone is very coy about this. I'm in my late fifies and curious but just don't want any kind of gay experience.... any ladyboys like to give an answer???

Well let me see, coy...ah...

I had an appointment with a TS escort about a year ago.

She (or he if you must) gave a me a blow job that caused me to perform a mini version of Old Faithful in Yellowstome Park.

Yeah it was worth giving a try I guess.

(did I detect hint of rebuke from Heather and Monroe?? Ah no I'm sure not!!)

**UKHeather** · 09-03-12, 23:46

Originally Posted by Lincoln

Well let me see, coy...ah...

I had an appointment with a TS escort about a year ago.

She (or he if you must) gave a me a blow job that caused me to perform a mini version of Old Faithful in Yellowstome Park.

Yeah it was worth giving a try I guess.

(did I detect hint of rebuke from Heather and Monroe?? Ah no I'm sure not!!)

Rebuke? It matters not to me what someone's sexuality is. The OP specified Pre-Op. My comment is my feeling about why a man would have sex with another man who looks like a female and is in the transformational process. Do you have a different perspective on it?

**Lincoln** · 10-03-12, 08:12

Originally Posted by UKHeather

Rebuke? It matters not to me what someone's sexuality is. The OP specified Pre-Op. My comment is my feeling about why a man would have sex with another man who looks like a female and is in the transformational process. Do you have a different perspective on it?

So a transexual person isn't a person who squarely considers themselves fundamentally female thus rendering the encounter a man performing a sexual act with another (somewhat effeminate) man. Well thats everything neatly squared away so.

Way to represent for the TS community Heather!

**Curvaceous Kate** · 10-03-12, 08:38

I have a friend who I met when he was a 'him' and years later I met them again as a 'she'. I know how much turmoil they have gone through to get listened to, to get recognised for who they are and how they feel and there is no mistaking the hell she is now going through while waiting to have physical changes in line with her mental state.

“Transgender” is an umbrella term that covers many diverse groups that have little or nothing to do with each other. Many people assume it refers just to transsexual people, but they are wrong. Transsexual people only represent a small fraction of those who are considered “transgender”. And for the record a transsexual person is someone who was born with a brain-body mismatch, literally a female brain in a male body or vice-versa. It is a naturally occurring birth condition. Through the process of TRANSITION transsexual people change their bodies to match the true inner gender and assume a gender appropriate role in society. Also one does not “become” transsexual; as I said we are BORN that way.

I think many transexuals would rather not want to have the male sexual organs, but since that is what they have, if they are Escorting, then that is what they have to earn their money with. Many men ask to use toys with ladies, so this is the comparison that is closest to the reality, but I assume would feel more natural and probably enjoyable for those that are seeking the experience. It does show an element of experimentation, but then so does using a butt plug in BDSM play, it doesn't make you gay.

It might however stir an appreciation that could lead to further experimentation and bisexuality, but as most women profess to have at least experimented with a woman and don't consider themselves gay, then really I don't see why anyone looking at transexuals should do. The point is, that they want the femine side and some transexuals are absolutely stunning. So imagine a stunner who can give you the best blow job ever, (as they know how it feels to have one) and you probably have the answer to your question.

**UKHeather** · 10-03-12, 11:18

Originally Posted by Lincoln

So a transexual person isn't a person who squarely considers themselves fundamentally female thus rendering the encounter a man performing a sexual act with another (somewhat effeminate) man. Well thats everything neatly squared away so.

Way to represent for the TS community Heather!

I don't claim to represent them Lincoln, nor would I. How could I? Again, do you have a different perspective on it?

**jayf1** · 10-03-12, 13:43

i think some posters are missing the point.
the o.p. was looking at this from a clients perspective and not looking for an insight into a pre-op ts's mind.

**CoolJay** · 10-03-12, 13:46

inb4 lock .

**Lincoln** · 10-03-12, 15:11

Originally Posted by UKHeather

I don't claim to represent them Lincoln, nor would I. How could I? Again, do you have a different perspective on it?

Well I guess I do, I'm a bloke that perfomed a sex act with a TS escort!

I wouldnt try to claim this was a "normal" heterosexual encounter. But I feel that it was a mile away from gay sex also. It was a TS encounter. I guess its its own thing.

When I said "way to represent" I didnt mean you were representing anyone, I just meant showing solidarity with (come to think of it I could've been a bit clearer!!).

Anyway I just played a crackin round of golf so it's all good as far as I'm concerned

(yes, I'm afraid I am THAT shallow)

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