Secret diary of a Dublin call girl

[Lucy Chambers]

Thank you for comments Kate. I think that is exactly the type of client that her comments will frighten away.

I doubt it.

In any case, could I ask why you felt the need to create a new ID to highlight this? I find that curious.

[Vasco da Gama]

Her message is just that- her message. It is an account of her time working as an escort, her experiences, and her thoughts. I certainly didnt feel she was referring to me. Just because something doesnt conform to type doesnt mean its a lie.

Thank you for your comments Lucy. I hope you will appreciate the reasons I considered the blog suspicious. The timing, the way it's written (incredibly shocking) etc..

However, you obviously know the person who's writing the blog, and that is enough authentification for me. And therefore have no problem now accepting her interpretation of her experiences.

I will make a point however, that she implies that this is the experience of all independant escorts. And that the experience of all non -independants is infinitely worse.

[UKHeather]

I appreciate that there is also the fact that things have changed drastically in the last 5 years alone, with reference to the recession and the male behaviour. If anything it is a lot worse now than it was 5 years ago and there are more pitfalls and problems to dodge in order to do well. I still worry that sending out messages like that will pull out the men that try their best to be 'nice', 'normal' and treat ladies like 'equals' and make them question what they are doing. Despite the fact that they might be in loveless situations, not had a hug in years, or just single and not want to muck people about. The men that geniunely don't care (which do exist) are not going to be touched by what she writes. They will remain.

I would urge men if they really care and want to see someone who geniunely wants to work as an Escort to spend time researching and that does not mean relying on reviews. Read her adverts through, read her blogs if she writes them, post her a message or give her a call and if it all adds up, then make your choice. I know of men that do research well in advance and have 2 or 3 girls that they would like to see, so when that uncontrollable urge comes along, there is no picking someone out of the bag and God knows what you might find, but a possibility that one of the ladies they have pre-selected is available and she is likely to be who she says she is and working because she wants to.

When a lady had retired it's very easy to reflect on thoughts and feelings, because they are behind you. However, if the thoughts have an impact on other people's present it can be damaging. Already someone has said that they want no part of the review system and using women so he is out. I bet he was a lovely guy as well. I doubt he would throw 50 euros on the floor and ask what extra services are on offer (which I think is disgusting by the way and he would have been asked to pick it up and leave if he had done that to me). Please don't leave us with all the dick heads!

Kate, I cannot see anything wrong with someone seeing the review system for what it is and pulling out of it. In my opinion it is disgusting to rate someone on such an intimate and personal matter. The men do it for themselves, nobody else. I agree with the blogger wholeheartedly in this respect.
I for one wish reviews did not exist. Money empowers the client and reviews empower them further. Sadly, they are here and an escort will find things difficult if she opts out.

[Lucy Chambers]

Thank you for your comments Lucy. I hope you will appreciate the reasons I considered the blog suspicious. The timing, the way it's written (incredibly shocking) etc..

However, you obviously know the person who's writing the blog, and that is enough authentification for me. And therefore have no problem now accepting her interpretation of her experiences.

I will make a point however, that she implies that this is the experience of all independant escorts. And that the experience of all non -independants is infinitely worse.

In that case we have the Venerable Belle and Between the Sheets to put things into their perspective. Its all shades of grey really, isnt it?

In anycase, thanks for highlighting the blog, it is one worthy of debate and as you rightly point out, one that the Anti sex work lobby will use. However, I do know her. She had a hard time here, and I always hoped she would have a chance to speak, I guess this is it.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Kate, i cannot see anything wrong with someone seeing the review system for what it is and pulling out of it. In my opinion it is disgusting to rate someone on such an intimate and personal matter. The men do it for themselves, nobody else. I agree with the blogger wholeheartedly in this respect.
I for one wish reviews did not exist. Money empowers the client and reviews empower them further. Sadly, they are here and and escort will find things difficult if she opts out.

It's funny how different people view things differently isn't it. If reviews were stopped. What method would you propose be used to sift out the fake from the geniune escorts?

[Lucy Chambers]

It's funny how different people view things differently isn't it. If reviews were stopped. What method would you propose be used to sift out the fake from the geniune escorts?

The reviews may have to go anyway if new laws are forced through. Word of mouth and a little bit of common sense should suffice.

[Vasco da Gama]

I doubt it.

In any case, could I ask why you felt the need to create a new ID to highlight this? I find that curious.

Out of fear Lucy. I am both paronoid and a coward and have no problem admitting it. Given the threads and posts and reviews she quotes from E-I, I expect that she would address this thread and delve further into the posts and reviews of the individual responsible for it. I still believe the TORL and Ruhamma have some role in this and will be as vindictive as possible. Even though as mentioned above, I accept your assessment that the blog writer is genuine.

[UKHeather]

It's funny how different people view things differently isn't it. If reviews were stopped. What method would you propose be used to sift out the fake from the geniune escorts?

Fake escorts don't worry me. As far as I'm aware, I'm not affected by them personally.

[UKHeather]

The reviews may have to go anyway if new laws are forced through. Word of mouth and a little bit of common sense should suffice.

LOL prostitution has survived since Adam's day without the internet.

[Lucy Chambers]

Out of fear Lucy. I am both paronoid and a coward and have no problem admitting it. Given the threads and posts and reviews she quotes from E-I, I expect that she would address this thread and delve further into the posts and reviews of the individual responsible for it. I still believe the TORL and Ruhamma have some role in this and will be as vindictive as possible. Even though as mentioned above, I accept your assessment that the blog writer is genuine.

I doubt she would be vindictive to any particular poster, but I can see your point.

Ruhama have their faults, and their propoganda machine is a farce. However I would rather they existed, because people such as Dublin Call Girl are the type of people they can help. I just want them to keep their agenda well away from me, and my colleagues. If they save even one genuine trafficking victim this year, well done them. We should start trying to talk to Ruhama maybe, instead of trying to malign them.