Invitation to extend

[UncleBob]

What is your opinion of being invited to extend your booking?

If you're having a great time, but time has ran out and you haven't come to a natural end yet, would you be offended to be offered to extend your time or would you feel like you were being ripped off?

If it's someone that I like and get along with, why would I be offended? I'd plough back into it, with gusto

[JAMESCORK]

Firstly, I would not have any prob with being offer to extend.. But what if I decide I did not want to extend and didnt realise the time had flown, would I be entitled to try and finish up, and if so, how much time would be acceptable?

[Curvaceous Kate]

Firstly, I would not have any prob with being offer to extend.. But what if I decide I did not want to extend and didnt realise the time had flown, would I be entitled to try and finish up, and if so, how much time would be acceptable?

This is a grey area indeed and I think it depends a little on how far over you have already gone, how much time she has got to offer you (she may be booked afterwards) and how long you think it would take. I think a sensible man would know which way works best for him to get quick results and offer to do it that way.

One of the problems with letting yourself go during a booking, is that time can fly away with you, so I accept that it's not always just his fault or just mine, but being able to agree that time has gone over and come to a mutual agreement shouldnn't be such an ordeal in my opinion.

Talking from a recent personal experience I did try to appease the situation and did offer to give him a happy ending, but he had got dressed so quickly and was so outraged he was no longer in the right frame of mind and declined.

Me... I was gobsmacked!

[JAMESCORK]

This is a grey area indeed and I think it depends a little on how far over you have already gone, how much time she has got to offer you (she may be booked afterwards) and how long you think it would take. I think a sensible man would know which way works best for him to get quick results and offer to do it that way.

One of the problems with letting yourself go during a booking, is that time can fly away with you, so I accept that it's not always just his fault or just mine, but being able to agree that time has gone over and come to a mutual agreement shouldnn't be such an ordeal in my opinion.

Talking from a recent personal experience I did try to appease the situation and did offer to give him a happy ending, but he had got dressed so quickly and was so outraged he was no longer in the right frame of mind and declined.

Me... I was gobsmacked!

Good answer Kate...

In response to your personal experience, you did offer the happy ending which is more than courteous, if a client gets outraged and loses the mood thats his problem really...

[Julius Caesar]

good answer kate...

In response to your personal experience, you did offer the happy ending which is more than courteous, if a client gets outraged and loses the mood thats his problem really...

charmer ...............

[anon361]

Wouldn't happen to me as far as not cumming, I can cum on cue, sometimes long before but it is a good idea and I have been asked in the past but for the opposit reason. We were getting along great, the lady was doing her job by really entertaining me, she could see this but at the same time she remained proffesional and kept it as a business arrangement and asked would I like to extend, I declined and that made things a little uncomfortable TBH as I think she might have either been dissapointed, and yes, could have been genuine or thought she landed a fish but couldn't keep him on the hook, I like to think the former..

[Morpheus]

What is your opinion of being invited to extend your booking?

If you're having a great time, but time has ran out and you haven't come to a natural end yet, would you be offended to be offered to extend your time or would you feel like you were being ripped off?

Thanks for asking Kate.

I note from the replies that most of the lads would have no problem with a lady offering to extend the booking for the appropriate fee. Of course the setting you've outlined is one where the punter hasn't had his happy ending yet! I think any man will agree to anything in that circumstance!!!

I think it would be reasonable and nice for the lady to offer a fella extra time (that he will pay for), if he hasn't "finished" by the end of the allocated time. (Of course this is with the caveat that the lady has given the fella his full time and hasn't shortchanged him).

Likewise I feel it's out of line for any punter to expect to be allowed to stay on and "finish" after his time has ended, without paying for extended time. (Which I understand is something a lot of ladies have to deal with).

However, I would personally feel under pressure if I was asked if I wanted to extend the appointment. For starters I always book for 1 hour and have never been in the above situation. So if a lady did ask if I wanted more time, I wouldn't really know what to say. Of course I'd like to stay on, but inevitably would be infringing my budget. And I'd be worried that the lady may take offence if I declined.

It reminds me a little bit of lap dancing clubs (which I stopped visiting the day I discovered ecorts!). The lap dancing girls always asked at the end of a dance if you wanted to extend the time. And if the answer was no, the said lady would inevitably go off in a huff.

I have never been asked if I wanted to extend my appointment. I have only once asked to extend an appointment. It was with a lady I know well and it was the last day of her tour - and I fancied having a bit extra time for cuddles and pillow talk. Unfortunately she had a subsequent booking and so I had to leave as scheduled.

[Cable87]

Lots of good points in here, and good suggestions on how to handle the situation discreetly and delicately.

I think it's perfectly fine for a lady to ask the client if they would like to extend the booking or offer extra time, but NOT if time is up right at that very second, and the encounter is being cut-off right in the midst of it. PLEASE don't be like: "Ok, you've been here 30 minutes and 20 seconds-- you're over the time! Get dressed and GET OUT!" That's going to cause nothing but hassle, annoyed punters and bad reviews, and possibly worse trouble.

If certain escorts feel the need to be that strict with their time to the point where they would be clearly displaying clocks and/or timers in the punters face (a SERIOUS turn-off for me and I imagine many guys), than at the very least, a 'five-minute warning' would be greatly appreciated, and it's possibly at this that the invitation to extend the booking can be mentioned. And if not, the message should be clear enough for most guys that this means 5 minutes to 'seal the deal' and 'lock it up'.

But please, do NOT get into a discussion about money right then and there for sure, serious mood breaker! If a lady is going to be this strict with her time, than a subtle mention that time is ***almost*** up will probably resolve the issue before there are the chance for any problems to arise!

[aml]

Well it would make the individual rather chuffed as they would probably feel the escort enjoyed his/her company as much as the client had

[Ray]

I dont see any harm in it at all, as long as it is done in the right way, not just at the end when someine is just about to burst, i think you would find most punters will embrace this,

What is your opinion of being invited to extend your booking?

If you're having a great time, but time has ran out and you haven't come to a natural end yet, would you be offended to be offered to extend your time or would you feel like you were being ripped off?