What would other punters have done?

[Bogman]

I'd like your thoughts, punters and ladies, on my situation today.

I pm'd a lady at 5.30pm yesterday for an appt today at Noon for 2 hours as I usually do. She replied and said she would be working in the area all day and to confirm in the morning.

I rang at 9.30am, no reply, mailbox is full. I pm'd to confirm and ask if earlier was possible. She replied shortly after to say that Noon was not available as she had an errand to do at 1pm. She had not confirmed Noon as available 100%, she did not offer an alternative time but hoped to see me another day.

I replied that I was disappointed with what had happened as I had arranged my day to suit the appointment. I also said that I would be difficult for me to book again as my annoyance would upset the atmosphere of any future booking.

We have not fallen out over the events in question but it has ensured that I would not book the lady again as it is unlikely we would get along well in an intimate situation.

[doodlebug]

I can see your annoyance, but I am not sure it is justified, you say that the booking was never confirmed for 12.00 so that means she has not in fact cancelled on you. Sounds like a bit of communication difficulties, not uncommon merely the nature of the transactions. I would not let it spoil any future appointment with said lady. You clearly wanted the appointment so the attraction that led you to choose her above others is still there. If you can take a step back and change your view of things even slightly you might find that you are able to rebook with said lady in the future without any threat to the meeting.

Only my tuppence worth.

[benin]

I'd like your thoughts, punters and ladies, on my situation today.

I pm'd a lady at 5.30pm yesterday for an appt today at Noon for 2 hours as I usually do. She replied and said she would be working in the area all day and to confirm in the morning.

I rang at 9.30am, no reply, mailbox is full. I pm'd to confirm and ask if earlier was possible. She replied shortly after to say that Noon was not available as she had an errand to do at 1pm. She had not confirmed Noon as available 100%, she did not offer an alternative time but hoped to see me another day.

I replied that I was disappointed with what had happened as I had arranged my day to suit the appointment. I also said that I would be difficult for me to book again as my annoyance would upset the atmosphere of any future booking.

We have not fallen out over the events in question but it has ensured that I would not book the lady again as it is unlikely we would get along well in an intimate situation.

peoples plans change mate.
and she did pm in reply its not like she let you arrive for the appointment and then left you stranded...if it was me i would deffo go see her in te future it would not put me off.

[Bogman]

Thanks for the input but personally I find it affects my impression of the professionalism of the lady and thus would make her much less desireable to book with. I would also say that when I booked there was no indication from her that the appointment would not go ahead and I was to simply confirm in the morning. I am peeved because she only said this morning that she had to collect a parcel at 1pm. Why at that time, could it not be collected later? I did offer to come at 11am and thus she would be able to get it at 1pm if that was vital to get. Its hard to see how she did not know that yesterday when she accepted my pm booking. Also she does encourage bookings in advance by pm, to avoid timewasters I suppose. I checked and her reply came at 10.30am, an hour after my pm. To get to her involved a hour plus drive thus I was about to leave which added to my peeved state.

[GriffW]

I'd like your thoughts, punters and ladies, on my situation today.

I pm'd a lady at 5.30pm yesterday for an appt today at Noon for 2 hours as I usually do. She replied and said she would be working in the area all day and to confirm in the morning.

I rang at 9.30am, no reply, mailbox is full. I pm'd to confirm and ask if earlier was possible. She replied shortly after to say that Noon was not available as she had an errand to do at 1pm. She had not confirmed Noon as available 100%, she did not offer an alternative time but hoped to see me another day.

I replied that I was disappointed with what had happened as I had arranged my day to suit the appointment. I also said that I would be difficult for me to book again as my annoyance would upset the atmosphere of any future booking.

We have not fallen out over the events in question but it has ensured that I would not book the lady again as it is unlikely we would get along well in an intimate situation.

I know what I wouldn't have done, I wouldn't have started this absurd post in the 1st place.....................

[Bogman]

Thanks for all the inputs especially the constructive ones. Perhaps it is an absurd post and it happens to punters all the time but its very unusual for me hence my desire to get other views on it.

I think I am a reliable and trusted punter who has been around the EI site for a good while and thus is not a timewaster, is very likely to turn up and if things go well would be the sort to return to the lady in the future for more fun and frolics. I thought I had made a firm booking of 2 hours at a set time and just had to confirm in the morning. I am perplexed that in these recession hit times a lady will so readily turn away a good sum of money from such a booking to run an errand which seems to me like it could have waited a little while. If there were extenuating personal reasons relating to my behaviour why she decided not to see me then I'd rather have heard that.

I stress that we have not fallen out over the issue and I wish her all the very best in the future.

I am actively looking for another lady to spend some time with this week before the Xmas hols kick in so I hope I have better luck next time.

[wellhungchap]

tid a bit absurd, ill grant ya that.. i would have just chosen another lady for to get up to alsorts with.

[Bogman]

Thanks WHC. I am choosy who I spend my hard earned cash on hence my preference to see carefully selected ladies for a relaxed 2 hour appt. I like to book well enough ahead so I assured I get the lady I prefer and she can find out a bit about me also through my profile and other reviews etc.

[wellhungchap]

hmm i know what ya mean alright.. i would prefer to have 4 half hour jizm sessions than a 2 hour session.. the reason for this is that i only get 45 minutes for lunch!! and i am quite partial to a rumble during the lunch break, deedin i do be.. i could go on, but am sure i would be censored for graphically explicit sexual content.. deedin ya do

[anon361]

Your first mistake was to assume a lady should arrange her day around you, your second mistake was creating this thread!!
Your first PM is irrelevant as no appointment was made and you already said the lady replied to your second PM in the morning in a very timely and professional manner to let you know Noon was not possible, even if you did arrive at 11 for a 2 hour appointment unless the parcel was outside her door I don't think she would have enough time to get to her destination.
I must say you are being very nice and sweet in your posts but behind it all I find your attitude very arrogant, maybe she picked up on that in your PM?