Hopping from one escort to the next

[ksteve]

I cant see any escort being upset at a regular seeing other escorts, its the nature of the business, and to be blunt its a business transaction and its the client who has the choice. I've not met one escort yet who 'expects' me to visit when their in town.
Customers are f*cking fickle in any business. When i closed a business in the UK to move here, had loads of so called customers i hadn't seen in yonks going ' ah its such a shame your closing' Hypocrites

Yes and when girls read reviews from clients saying 'wow,wow ........... cant wait to see you again babe ' and then never sees him again on her next tours to that town or area but yet sees him review others instead, I wouldnt be surprised if they are a bit disappointed, at a minimum.

[ksteve]

A paying man is anybody's man. That's my take on it.
I have known some escorts to be very possessive over their clients though.. some even report them as bad clients to discourage other escorts from seeing them.

Thanks for that insight Heather. Maliciously reporting them as bad clients is further than I thought that a hurt/ disappointed escort might go.These are the type of things we only get to learn from escorts who post openly here.
It is only human that there must be some element of competition between escorts, whether it is admitted openly or not. Business is business.

[lucy x]

[QUOTE=ksteve;639087]

So, it struck me to what extent, if at all, does an escort feel this way when she sees a favoured client continually go off for service elsewhere? Does it offend in any way ?

Yes onces I tryed my best with one guy,he was very happy he kept saying that I'm beautiful when he left he sent me message <thanks love hope to see you soon> and why after two days he comed to see my friend.

[Amy Alison]

In most personal service industries, the Service Provider tries to give a really good service in the hope that the client will become a loyal client and will return for that service. Indeed a great amount of effort and detail may go into providing the quality service in order to increase the likeliehood of further repeat business.

No SP( who would like to see repeat business from that client) likes to see the client go down the road to another SP after all that work and effort . There is a sense of being let down.

So, it struck me to what extent, if at all, does an escort feel this way when she sees a favoured client continually go off for service elsewhere? Does it offend in any way ?

For the guys, are you ever conscious or do you even care about the affect you might have when you choose not to return visit to an escort who would welcome your repeat custom and may be disappointed to seeing you spend your money elsewhere

A good client is a good client, I would welcome him regardless who else is he seeing. My understanding is that we are here to provide a service and for many people variety is the spice of life. The good clients would pay the stated fees, would be nice and polite, friendly without getting too personal, would understand that if an escort has already a booking she is not going to stood another client up just because they want to visit again etc... I am normally happy to see if those clients have a good time with somebody else, I feel sorry if they had a bad time and I am looking forward seeing them again whenever they are ready seeing me again. If for some reason this never happens, so be it but from my personal experience, this happens very rarely, eventually they are coming back.

But if clients asks for personal favours from me while they are happy to get much less elsewhere OR if they make a lot of personal favours to others while acting cold with me (still visiting me though), I could start getting annoyed. The more the annoyance lasts, the less inclined I am to ever accept their custom again.

Reviews usually make me annoyed, when repeat clients continue to visit me but they never leave a review, while they would review others. I understand why someone may not want to leave a review, but then why still come seeing me? I feel discriminated against. Repeat clients that ask for discounts also bother me when they would try to save a lame 10 Euro on me but would be quite the big spenders with others. In certain cases I feel really annoyed when I see that those clients see pimped girls or girls I suspected of doing BB sex and in those cases I immediately refuse any more visits.

[samlad]

once is enough to get married bud.

repeat visits happen and always will

but i doubt if any escort would be disappointed if a client visits other escorts...if they are id say they need a career change.

Looks like I've filled my quota!

[ksteve]

[QUOTE=lucy x;646115]

So, it struck me to what extent, if at all, does an escort feel this way when she sees a favoured client continually go off for service elsewhere? Does it offend in any way ?

Yes onces I tryed my best with one guy,he was very happy he kept saying that I'm beautiful when he left he sent me message <thanks love hope to see you soon> and why after two days he comed to see my friend.

Did that upset you Lucy in any way ?

[ksteve]

A good client is a good client, I would welcome him regardless who else is he seeing. My understanding is that we are here to provide a service and for many people variety is the spice of life. The good clients would pay the stated fees, would be nice and polite, friendly without getting too personal, would understand that if an escort has already a booking she is not going to stood another client up just because they want to visit again etc... I am normally happy to see if those clients have a good time with somebody else, I feel sorry if they had a bad time and I am looking forward seeing them again whenever they are ready seeing me again. If for some reason this never happens, so be it but from my personal experience, this happens very rarely, eventually they are coming back.

But if clients asks for personal favours from me while they are happy to get much less elsewhere OR if they make a lot of personal favours to others while acting cold with me (still visiting me though), I could start getting annoyed. The more the annoyance lasts, the less inclined I am to ever accept their custom again.

Reviews usually make me annoyed, when repeat clients continue to visit me but they never leave a review, while they would review others. I understand why someone may not want to leave a review, but then why still come seeing me? I feel discriminated against. Repeat clients that ask for discounts also bother me when they would try to save a lame 10 Euro on me but would be quite the big spenders with others. In certain cases I feel really annoyed when I see that those clients see pimped girls or girls I suspected of doing BB sex and in those cases I immediately refuse any more visits.

What type of things do you have in mind here Amy?. If you dont want to be specific then thats no problem.

[Amy Alison]

What type of things do you have in mind here Amy?. If you dont want to be specific then thats no problem.

A few examples come to mind, but I cannot be very specific, as some of those guys read the boards once in a while

For example, a certain someone who have seen me already a few times, was acting rather neutrum to me on the boards, while in person he would be really lovely. I am professional enough to know my boundaries and didn't mind that at all, we are all different and I am not the kind of girl to look for too much free publicity, if anything I would feel slightly emabressed if I get too much of it publicly (I also operate better on a 1 on 1 basis). I didn't even mind when another board member was joking on the boards that my client likes me (didn't mention my name but the hint was there) and he dismissed the thread very easily. But I was a little puzzled when the same person was happy to announce in public other bookings he might have or had. That could have been seen as doing those ladies a favour as it works like free advertising. I didn't want any free advertising from him, but also I didn't want him to go totally the other way and almost deny me in public I really thought all the escorts he have seen were really nice and extraordinaty women, so not "jealousy" was my problem. My problem was that I started to feel very insecure about myself and I didn't understand why he keeps booking me so very often if he give the impression that he doesn't really like me at least as much as the rest.

Yes, at the end of the day the problem was mine, I should have not cared as long as he was seeing me the most anyway, but I wasn't really that long in the business and I guess I was going trough a rough time trying to boost my confidence levels. Now, it would not bother me at least, he was at the end of the day a very good client.

I have another example, much more obvious and more recent but I don't really want to say it here as some people would know what I mean

[lucy x]

[QUOTE=ksteve;646373]

Did that upset you Lucy in any way ?

Obviously.........

[davidhaveone]

[QUOTE=lucy x;646115]

So, it struck me to what extent, if at all, does an escort feel this way when she sees a favoured client continually go off for service elsewhere? Does it offend in any way ?

Yes onces I tryed my best with one guy,he was very happy he kept saying that I'm beautiful when he left he sent me message <thanks love hope to see you soon> and why after two days he comed to see my friend.

I girl i seen about a year ago said that she couldn't understand why i was complimenting her so much and then going off and doing the same with other girls. (she knew this from my reviews of other girls), I didn't know what to say to her and have not seen her since. but it has put me off reviewing girls i must say