With all due respect ber, are you saying you have had girlfriends who wouldn't blow you unless you had a condom on?!?!
Or are you saying (even more shocking to me!!) that you have had girlfriends that wouldn't blow you full stop?!?!?!?!
I'm sure I misunderstood your post ........... or there is something seriously wrong in Cork!!
If I understand you correctly then that just blew my mind ........... and that's ALL it blew apparently!!!

Paws