Why bother

[MrNiceGuy2010]

I think you are taking the whole thing far too seriously. When it comes to visiting escorts I doubt many married men think deeply about the questions you ask.

Untill it goes to the divorce courts then its a hole different story

[wolfie]

what I can never understand is how a man can risk everyting just for the sake cheating. by cheating they have showed a lack of honesty & ability to be secretive & deceitful is it really worth it?

You have absolutely no idea what circumstances some married people find themselves in. So making a generalised comment like that shows almighty arrogance and ignorance

[MrNiceGuy2010]

You have absolutely no idea what circumstances some married people find themselves in. So making a generalised comment like that shows almighty arrogance and ignorance

True but i think he is just vocing his opion.

[wolfie]

Untill it goes to the divorce courts then its a hole different story

hahahahaha .......


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[wolfie]

True but i think he is just vocing his opion.

Yes. But it's not one I agree with

[ksteve]

There is little or no possibility that a married guy who considers himself to be in a stable marriage ( other than the absolute exceptions above ) and therefore has a lot to lose but who still visits escorts , believes he is going to get caught or found out by his wife and family. Rightly or wrongly, he has made the assessment that provided he takes X precautions , the risk of exposure is sufficiently remote and therefore boxed off in his head.

Were he to believe otherwise and to believe that the risk of exposure is indeed high , with a distinct likelihood of exposure resulting in the decimation of his marriage and the revulsion of his children, I doubt whether the vast majority of these married punters would visit escorts and take that risk.

I would be interested to hear comments to the contrary from these married guys as I stand to be corrected.

[jammy69]

There is little or no possibility that a married guy who considers himself to be in a stable marriage ( other than the absolute exceptions above ) and therefore has a lot to lose but who still visits escorts , believes he is going to get caught or found out by his wife and family. Rightly or wrongly, he has made the assessment that provided he takes X precautions , the risk of exposure is sufficiently remote and therefore boxed off in his head.

Were he to believe otherwise and to believe that the risk of exposure is indeed high , with a distinct likelihood of exposure resulting in the decimation of his marriage and the revulsion of his children, I doubt whether the vast majority of these married punters would visit escorts and take that risk.

I would be interested to hear comments to the contrary from these married guys as I stand to be corrected.

I think you sum that up very well. It's a calculated risk to enjoy something that that can't be found at home (this can be one of many things - different for everyone). A selfish act, but perhaps not, as it keeps you on an even keel and content at home.

[fiatpunter]

Untill it goes to the divorce courts then its a hole different story

I think you'll find its a different hole story

[Corefinder]

You have absolutely no idea what circumstances some married people find themselves in. So making a generalised comment like that shows almighty arrogance and ignorance

I guess u have a sensitive side learn to accept other people have opinions & drop your dreadful attitude.