Sex....Morality....Ethics and all that jazz

[JAMESCORK]

I think it is preferable to go to an escort in order to preserve an otherwise functioning marriage,

then to slowly, progressively grow more and more unhappy with your otherwise loving wife and eventually

become resentful towards her (due to lack of sex), therefore making for a very unhappy marriage and lead

to eventual break up..

If you love the other and are compatible otherwise, why destroy it if you can find a way to make it work??

Especially if you have kids, preservation of a contented family unit would be a priority I think.

(note: I say "a contented family unit" is worth preserving)

In my opinion your first and foremost responsibility is to yourself.. if you're unhappy, so is your family..

Refer to my "wheelchair" post : a miserable person makes for a miserable relationship. Period.

May that person be male or female. Sexual frustration is gender blind.

I like this girl... I think she understands me..... I think I am falling in love with you Steph...