Sex....Morality....Ethics and all that jazz

[saoirsemac]

its all that whoremonger alec fault.....

bring happiness back
no more off these threads ei becommin a sad and dark place
rather than happy little retreat ffs i nearly want good morning threads nd boobie pic threads again
u know ruhama are taking notes ffs

ban alec horan i say public hanging

[sperminater]

Every situation is diffrent it's what you decide it's your own morality are you happy seeing escorts now I was faithful for 23years until I started seeing escorts and YES that is being unfaithful you can't dress it up any differently cis your putting your dick into another pussy ( a bit graphic but true ) I've found myself from this experience and that there's something fundamentally wrong in my relationship and it's not fair on me or more importantly she needs someone to love her also but it ain't me cos I cheat for what ever reason and I can see all the diffrent points on this thread and I see there's a few of us trying to justify what we do it's not television here folks it's reality but do not kid yourself you are cheating and if you can live with that well good for you and if you can't well just look at yourself for your own sanity

[doodlebug]

I am not going to pass judgement, (publicly anyway) on anyone posting here or using this site, as clients or escorts. I do however wonder how many clients are actually valuing the companionship more than the sex. I expect the proportion is higher than many would believe from the forums etc. The environment on the boards with reviews etc is very "macho" for want of a better term and very few posters will admit they enjoyed the conversation, drink etc more than the actual sex. If the companionship is the reason you are seeing escorts and you are in a relationship then you do have to ask yourself some fundamental questions.

Not, moral ethical or whatever but pure happines. Can't help agreeing with Stephanies earlier point if you or your partner are basically unhappy in a relationship you will make others close to you unhappy too.

[sperminater]

Yes doodles I agree not all the guys go for sex and some go for companionship now I reiterate my point if you married/relationship there's something very wrong in that relationship.... As for the macho stuff on the board I'm one of them and it's good for my ego cos we all have one and some egos get massaged on the borad with is good for them but I genuinely feel if you lr seeing escorts alarm bells boys there's something not right

[doodlebug]

Yes doodles I agree not all the guys go for sex and some go for companionship now I reiterate my point if you married/relationship there's something very wrong in that relationship.... As for the macho stuff on the board I'm one of them and it's good for my ego cos we all have one and some egos get massaged on the borad with is good for them but I genuinely feel if you lr seeing escorts alarm bells boys there's something not right

Your my hero Spermie (enough macho massaging for you, LOL)

[sperminater]

Your my hero Spermie (enough macho massaging for you, LOL)

Yo bro no more macho from me I'm going to get rid of al and replace him with bigbird and change my signature to "I love you"
Naa maybe not...!! Anyway got into my car this morning 100km winds and rain and thaught of my fellow posters and what was in the cd player " riders on the storm" very apt for us lot dint you think.. Lol

[warmcome]

Heather signature is nothing to do with the discussion.

I think perhaps we all have our own viewpoints on this. Let not stifle other people.

i see how my post could have been misconstrued, i went to bed.
Heather's argument reminds me of the vegetarian butcher i once knew.

[ksteve]

Girl's opinion:

She would be absolutely devastated.

She would question the whole entire relationship from its inception through all the meaningful moments,

all the intimacy, question her own worth, and search for a reason, search for where she went wrong.

Could be ruined for rest of her life, unable to ever trust again..

(It's from my Psych books and case studies)

Really, there no need for her to take the whole thing so seriously.

[Stephanie]

Really, there no need for her to take the whole thing so seriously.

A funny one, are 'ya, today ??

Truly, she would.. It's a girl thing.. according to all the books I read lol xx

[ksteve]

Some of the threads on here recently have led me to realise some things.
1. I'm unhappy. (No, I'm not married or in a relationship)
2. Visiting escorts isn't going to make me happy. It is fun but I'm beginning to realise it has an emotional cost along with the financial. It seems that the more I spend the less chance I have of a 'normal' relationship - if there is such a thing, which I doubt!
3. The question is how to move from escorts to relationships. (Moral and ethical ones that is!)
4. A bit more on topic - I haven't the time, inclination, energy etc to judge other people and set standards for them - in personal relationships. Let them sort out their own mess - their adults afterall. I can't afford to throw stones. The signature is about me deceiving myself.

Seeing escorts should have nothing to do with your chances of having a normal relationship with a girl in civvy street. You should not confuse the two. I suspect your worries about forming normal relationships need to be adressed in other ways. The best of luck --- everyone should experience the magic of being in a loving relationship !