Sex....Morality....Ethics and all that jazz

[paul_m]

For me it's to go to work, but I don't pre-judge my customers/clients.

but I bet your boss thinks you're a cu*t

[Lincoln]

No Lucy. I wouldn't. I need a man who has respect for women. I don't think men who see prostitutes have that. They think they do!.. but they don't, not really x

I do wish to respect your opinion Heather but I find it a little bit hard to accept an ad hominem assertion like that.

I utterly reject that my having paid for sex means that I do not respect women. Its such a narrow-minded proposition. I'm quite surprised here.

[Forrest]

I do wish to respect your opinion Heather but I find it a little bit hard to accept an ad hominem assertion like that. I utterly reject that my having paid for sex means that I do not respect women. Its such a narrow-minded proposition. I'm quite surprised here.

I have to agree with you on that Lincoln, and very eloguently and respectfully stated.



A little less eloquently put, but understandable in the circumstances.

[saoirsemac]

no one will ever know that you have seen prossies before for fuck sake, women are way more tarnished than men, once a prossie always a prossie

u r a complete dickhead for that statement, seriously mate best part of u was left dripping down ur mothers leg after u where born in the back of the van..... small minded prick but thats small cock symdrone for ya eh
go back to ur porn nd jerking off in ur parents house and leave the adults talk

[Lincoln]

Hello Forrest, how are you doing lad?

In some ways I have a sometimes less than comfortable walk through life (I have a ton of stuff to be grateful for too). I have a fair amount of loneliness to deal with and the various collateral problems this can cause. I have a hell of a lot of female family, friends and colleagues and I know well my worth to them as a friend and work mate.

Yes I habitually give women working as prostitutes money and we then have consensual sex. I treat each and every women in this context with courtesy and respect. I do not agree with Heather's assertion that these things are mutually exclusive.

[saoirsemac]

right i have read enu
while i agree with heather to a point... i agree sum men do not respect what we do or us, but not all i know that for fact as i have mates who u punt and they see us as busniess women who are smart enu to cash in so to speak,
i was a girl who went out had random sex alot now i just cut the middle man out nd get paid...... i dnt want to think i exploite sumone i provide my time nd company to punters who pay me i get wat i want they get wat they want.....

now regarding the cheating stance in marraige im a firm believer punting in fact can help it.... as alot of arguements arise thru restment if ur in a non sexual marraige do it u know wat cud lead to alot happier home. what wud i do if my husband did it id be pretty pissed wnt lie but be worse if he made an emontional investment in an affair...

regards to the guys doing it who have girlfriends why not variety is the spice of life i know people who are together nd like their happy together but they wnt get married or last longer than their 30s so hey life is for living
my only issue is if u let ur kids etc go without in order to punt then ya thats really wrong.... but if u can afford it go for it
i wnt judge anyone, those in glass houses and all...


now i do have one little issue with heather constent use of the word prostitue, i do not count myself as one im an escort, if u want to refer to urself using a degrading word like that go for it thats ur business but dnt call us all that.... no wonder men disrespect us if they think its ok to call us hookers whores etc. yes i know call it wat u want its all sex for sale but id like to think im bit mre classy than a strung out junkie selling herself on the corner... its attitudes like this is way men disrespect us the see women doing to it each and think its ok.... maybe im naive as im younger but i know wat i dnt like
and tbh heather u sound like u need a hoilday form this i have always enjoyed nd respected ur post but to be honest, u starting to sound hateful of all punters even tho their is gud ones out their well either that or im lucky we all get assholes too and i say that with respect to u as a person and in a non bitchy way
just my two cents.....

[Forrest]

Hello Forrest, how are you doing lad?
In some ways I have a sometimes less than comfortable walk through life (I have a ton of stuff to be grateful for too). I have a fair amount of loneliness to deal with and the various collateral problems this can cause. I have a hell of a lot of female family, friends and colleagues and I know well my worth to them as a friend and work mate.
Yes I habitually give women working as prostitutes money and we then have consensual sex. I treat each and every women in this context with courtesy and respect. I do not agree with Heather's assertion that these things are mutually exclusive.

Good evening Lincoln. We all have our own personal issues to deal with, and loneliness, even when you may
be surrounded by people - friends, family, work mates, is tough to deal with.

I have already stated that I thought Heather's comment was a bit of a generalisation. Of course there are men
that have no respect for women, as there are women that have no respect for men.

I enjoy the company of people generally and try to show respect in all my dealings with the human race.
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you"

I can understand where Heather is coming from to a degree, in that I am probably showing a lack of respect
to my wife by visiting escorts, and for that I am ashamed.
However, I prefer that to walking out on my family completely and tearing our whole world apart.

[UKHeather]

You are against it, yet you take advantage of it. In other words, you have principles, yet you tarnish them in order to get some money.

How would you expect someone to respect you if you don't even respect yourself?

You ask, or better demand respect from those that you refuse to respect. You try to justify the things you do in order to make yourself feel better. Well, keep listening to those voices, I'm just glad we won't ever have to meet.

Ever.

I don't really understand your post but I will reply to it if you would explain it a little more clearly for me.

Where did I say I do not respect men?
Where have I 'tried' to justify what I do? What am I doing, exactly?
What makes you think I have no respect for myself?
Why do you think I hear voices?

I have a healthy attitude to this work
I am making a living and contributing to the support of my family.

[UKHeather]

It still doesn't make them right but, if they truly believe that,
why do they allow such degenerates to visit them.

I missed where clients were called degenerates. I invite them to visit me because it's well paid, I like sex and the majority are good company.

[Forrest]

I missed where clients were called degenerates.

That's my description, Heather, based on your assertion that we have no respect for women.

I invite them to visit me because it's well paid, I like sex and the majority are good company.

The majority are good company, even though they have no respect for women.