I gave my opionion on the topic and as i said my views are different to a lot of other people as regards this and will obviously not be liked by the majority..i guess i have an idealistic view on relationships but thats just my stance on the issue....I have already apologised to punterminator for going off topic on his thread..i guess it doesnt really matter and i have taken this topic to seriously in my views which i posted and in this case my view shouldnt matter as regards the original topic of this thread..